[pikachufanboy]

One thing I've noticed is that all the infield vids seem to have guys:
1) lifting the girl off her feet
2) hugging the girl for a long period of time
3) getting her arms around his neck and staring into her eyes

just a very noticeable trend. i do appreciate the central importance of physicality but i haven't tried lifting a girl at a nightclub. maybe time to try it out.

[Perseus]

(06-05-2012 06:52 AM)pikachufanboy Wrote:  

One thing I've noticed is that all the infield vids seem to have guys:
1) lifting the girl off her feet
2) hugging the girl for a long period of time
3) getting her arms around his neck and staring into her eyes

just a very noticeable trend. i do appreciate the central importance of physicality but i haven't tried lifting a girl at a nightclub. maybe time to try it out.

I have lifted a girl in a night club just recently actually (last saturday night).

What i noticed from the "lifting" move is that it accomplishes one thing only, make the girl extremely insecure because she will assume that when you lift her, you'll have a decent idea of how much she weighs. Or maybe that applies to messed up Toronto broads.

Overall, this move IMO seems like a great comfort building technique as you are indirectly acquiring sensitive information about her (weight) and being ok with it, assuming she's not a whale!

Yup i even did SOME hugging between songs.

Frankly made out with her within 10 minutes of meeting her on the dance floor, not to brag or anything, it was just a result of direct cave man style that i just jumped between her and her gf (LITERALLY JUMPED), separated both, had to turn around and tell her gf that i want one dance with her friend, and bingo!

[Fathom]

Girls love it when you lift them and spin around with them. I have never gotten a bad reaction the few times I had the balls to do it, nor seen any of my friends get one. It's always an explosion of giggles. Plus it shows playfulness and dominance all in one. Hugs, spins, extended handshakes (where you shake her hand and don't let go), extended hi-fives (you hi-five, then intertwine your fingers with hers as you lower your hands; now you're holding hands) and grabbing them by throwing your arm around their shoulders do more than words could ever accomplish. This is why guys with good physical game can do boring interview style while getting good results, while the "what-should-I-open-with-to-make-her-like-me" crowd stare and scheme at the corner of the club, briefly crawling out for a doomed approach before slithering back to the chump corner and talking about how the chicks here are all bitches or, my favourite, "I'm just here to hang out with my friends, girls aren't that important." I've spent quite a bit of time in that latter category.

For guys who haven't done much physical game, like myself, the biggest hurdle in using it is actually believing that it works. But once you've done it a few times and seen it, it changes your whole outlook.