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why am i going over/obsessing over a chik i just met????
06-03-2012, 11:00 AM
Story... I've been eyeing this girl for a month. Seen her a couple of times and she's shown subtle interest. I'm talking to a group of girls last night at this club and she comes over to me and says what up. Noticing im doing work she makes some comments about talking to all the girls. I got them to buy me shots. Anyways we dance and then take her over to this seated area. She pretty much tells me "we should hang out..." i ask her "well how are we going to do that???" "take my number..."
I now have the number, but guess what? I don't know what to open her with text. I'm freaked out im going to fuck it up, when i know she'll reciprocate.
I really have a thing for korean/japanese and im going nuts right now because she is totallly my type. I don't act like this with other chicks, because i don't care. How do i condition myself to act like this, with this girl?
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why am i going over/obsessing over a chik i just met????
06-03-2012, 11:05 AM
Don't worry. Age will condition you. Just enjoy being young and still being capable of getting excited over something as simple as a big dumb animal - i.e., a human female.
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why am i going over/obsessing over a chik i just met????
06-03-2012, 11:26 AM
I wouldn't worry too much cause it sounds like you have this locked. Play it casual and tell her you are gonna get a drink after work and she can meet you. If you have a place, tell her you got some free time and are about to watch a movie, invite her.
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why am i going over/obsessing over a chik i just met????
06-03-2012, 06:34 PM
Since the outcome seems to matter so much to you, say whatever you like and ideally totally fuck it up. Because:
a) we learn best from our mistakes; and
b) girls can smell an outcome-dependent guy from 100 feet.
I have no idea how many Korean/Japanese girls there are out there, but I expect it's in excess of 100 million. Try not to give too much of a fuck about 1.
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why am i going over/obsessing over a chik i just met????
06-04-2012, 01:00 AM
Fuck a few other Korean/Japanese girls until it isn't a big deal for you anymore. I'm sure you know this of course but the second you make an issue about a single girl and start worrying about stupid shit is when you're fucked. I've made this mistake too many times in the past.