[Muffin Man]

I just moved to a new city and have been going to happy hours nearby by myself. Last night I went to a happy hour which according to reviews attracts an older crowd. After about 30 minutes a woman sits next to me, orders a drink, and starts playing on her phone. I open by asking about the app she is using and she goes on to teach me all about this app. There was some conversation in between but this seriously took about an hour. Finally we started talking about each other what we do, where we are from, etc. She asked most of these questions including asking my name and saying we should exchange numbers. She also mentioned she was an actress but didn't want to talk about it much. After a few hours our legs were touching and she would touch my hand occasionally from time to time. She really belabored the point on every story and it became really difficult to get a word in edgewise. Also normal game did not seem to work with her she brushed almost every comment aside unless it was a question at which point she would talk my ear off for another 30 minutes. Unfortunately I had go after a few hours although by that point I was pretty sick of her. We exchanged numbers and set up a time to meet at the bar again (she is only in town for a week).

When I got home I looked her up online and she actually is a C actress, but she has dated an actor who I would consider an A/B actor. Not exactly sure what qualifies as A or B but everyone here would know who he is.

Basically I want to know how the hell to pull this girl and if it's even possible. I am 25 she is 37. Should I be taking our legs touching as IOIs and will normal game work. I remember reading a thread about actresses being different and needing to do things differently. It seemed like I would need to do something different given how prone she was to hijack every conversation. I also wasn't entirely sure whether she was into me or not though as she got more and more drunk she did seem to be eyeing me down.

[Icarus]

(05-29-2012 07:43 AM)Muffin Man Wrote:  

Basically I want to know how the hell to pull this girl and if it's even possible. I am 25 she is 37.

I think you are on the wrong forum. Jezebel might be more your thing.

[Muffin Man]

Ya I really rambled there. Feel free to move to newbie forum.

[Riker]

When she was rambing after a while you should have gone for the kiss. Problem solved.

[kosko]

Yea you needed to escalate somehow. A few hours? That's like a date maybe a venue change to a patio bar or something would of been better. I could not imagine giving a female that much of my time without at least putting a kiss in or something. If you guys were yapping away for that long she obviously was not in a rush anywhere. With happy hours people usually got 2-4 hours to kill it seems and are really at mercy for a bed or commute time back home.

She probably gamed you then seen you wern't swinging and just went into ramble and rants to vent. If its

Never care about the status of the female you are trying to game. I could care less if shes an actress or a waitress at Denny's. Treat her the same. Its actually better to treat semi-celebs like nothing. I have played dumb on semi-celebs quite often in Toronto with positive results.. they start to assume I'm a big deal even though I am just a broke student. If your busy living your life and doing great things it really should not be a shock if you have no idea whom the fuck they are. Unless you work in the same industry why would a busy man know whom she is.

I find Actresses easy to game they have a chip on thier shoulder and are usually in the know on random little topics and things to bring up. Plus they usually have traveled a little bit and you can share stories on where you've been. Plus its funny to look at them in retrospect down the road and give your self a pat on the chest of a job well done.

This was some D lister from Canada I worked on back in the day when I was a tike (19 I think):

She looks like this now:


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Then when I knew her and she was jailbait:

[MrXY]

Actresses are super attention whores and most are extreme extroverts. That's why they're actresses!

Obviously she was milking you for the attention she craved and you gave it to her.

Was she thinking about banging you? Maybe. A better strategy might have been to give her less attention-the push/pull technique-to make her chase you

Other players who have banged minor celebs have said that the way to play them is to treat them worse than you would the average girl- if you understand game it's easy to understand why this would work

If you do see her again-I would just go for it hard-she's 37 and only in town for a few days