[Manystyles]

Met this chick from pof... I live a couple states away but when i was in town we met up. Made out and she was initiating kissing on me by the end of the night. Didn't get the bang but she wanted to keep in touch. I call her every couple of weeks and text every now and then. She so far has always answered the phone and never rushes me off. I've never tried this before from a distance. At the same time she has never initiated text or phone, but she always responds positively.
I'm trying to go for the bang next time i see her but i feel this is just what happens before you get the bang...?

[tjuan]

She probably knows you initiating is a sure thing, so she doesn't bother.
Familiarize yourself with commandment 5 of the sixteen commandments of poon.
If she's not contacting you, I'm going to assume it's more 1:1, or worse.
Always adhere to 2/3.
Get options so you're not focused on her. Pipelining is fine, pining is not.

Here's how you get her to contact you: Abrupt radio silence, effective NOW.
The only way she's going to hear a word from you is by contacting you.
If she doesn't contact you, it's simple: you don't talk to her again.
No loss, she didn't even care to check in.

[haywire]

A couple of states away?? Why do you even bother calling/texting unless you're about to visit her town? Such kind of calling/texting is a waste of everyone's time, stop it, or soon she would stop entertaining you.

[Manystyles]

(05-24-2012 10:06 AM)haywire Wrote:  

A couple of states away?? Why do you even bother calling/texting unless you're about to visit her town? Such kind of calling/texting is a waste of everyone's time, stop it, or soon she would stop entertaining you.

Pretty much I travel for work.... I'm in an area where there is not a lot of poon. The poon that is available to me is of very low quality. I have girls in different states. One chick wanted to visit me this weekend from the west coast, but im going up to ny. I'm not texting this girl like crazy just keeping her in my back pocket. She is physically my type. Korean, slim with some nice curves. Kinda go crazy over these asian girls and i try to keep it cool. Non-asian chicks just don't do it for me. I'll fuck them but after that im tired and its a waste of time. I banged a chick last week in savannah, ons... Next day i forgot about her. Her body was an 8, double d titties, face was a 6. forgettable.

Probably should've made another thread but when you have a team of women how do you stay grounded when there is that one girl that you go crazy for? Ok not crazy but takes precedence over your other girls? Like i said, asian chicks i go crazy for. Its not a fetish or yellow fever, i just am really attracted to their features.

[haywire]

Oh ok, now I understand your situation better and like you said you should have created a different thread with a title like "How to keep long distance prospects alive" and it should belong to the Game section not the newbie one.

Anyways, back to your situation - I think she perhaps does not see much potential in you due to the distance(unless you've told her about some long term plans), though I do think she's definitely attracted to you. Unless she sees you as a perfect 10, I don't think she would like to take the risk of appearing needy(and if she's attractive she's getting attention from other sources too) by initiating text/calls with a long distance guy. At the same time, she does not mind receiving attention from you and perhaps wouldn't mind seeing you again when you're in town. I'd say you should continue with the level of contact you're at, and DHV like a mofo when you do so.

[j r]

If I'm reading this correctly, you are trying to figure out how to keep this chick on the back burner without having her either boil over or go completely cold. That is a tricky situation when you live in the same town and even harder when you're not. I'm not sure I have any good advice as to how to proceed in the time between now and when you see here.

I will give you one piece of advice, though: next time you see her, make sure you bang. The more time you spend in this non-sexual limbo, the more time she has to think about whether she's into you. Once you've had sex, she'll start rationalizing in your favor.

[Manystyles]

(05-24-2012 12:13 PM)j r Wrote:  

If I'm reading this correctly, you are trying to figure out how to keep this chick on the back burner without having her either boil over or go completely cold. That is a tricky situation when you live in the same town and even harder when you're not. I'm not sure I have any good advice as to how to proceed in the time between now and when you see here.

I will give you one piece of advice, though: next time you see her, make sure you bang. The more time you spend in this non-sexual limbo, the more time she has to think about whether she's into you. Once you've had sex, she'll start rationalizing in your favor.

I agree with both of you guys... thx

Will report back and to give the play by play