I have experienced painfully on my own skin that showing too much attention ( or affection) kills the attraction totally.
On the other hand, can showing too less attention can damage attraction as well?
I took a girl at my place last night. She had a period and we ended with only oral sex. She asked me if I call her later and left a earring at my place possibly to have a excuse to come back. She texted me first if I found her earring. When I confirmed she said she would come to pick it up tomorrow if I am home.
I text back: “I will try to find a minute ” to what she didn’t reply.
I am thinking to text her tomorrow:
“ can’t make it today. forgot I have a table tennis training. let’s get together tomorrow evening. we’ll get some wine.”
Is it fine or maybe I am jumping from one extreme to another?
On the other hand, can showing too less attention can damage attraction as well?
I took a girl at my place last night. She had a period and we ended with only oral sex. She asked me if I call her later and left a earring at my place possibly to have a excuse to come back. She texted me first if I found her earring. When I confirmed she said she would come to pick it up tomorrow if I am home.
I text back: “I will try to find a minute ” to what she didn’t reply.
I am thinking to text her tomorrow:
“ can’t make it today. forgot I have a table tennis training. let’s get together tomorrow evening. we’ll get some wine.”
Is it fine or maybe I am jumping from one extreme to another?