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I'm 25, shes 31 and we work together. She makes a hella lot more money than I do and I think that's fantastic Last week, we went to 2 bars on different nights. I couldn't have her over the first night cause a bunch of people were here smokin weed and the 2nd night she went home and told when she got there she was home alone... got the too late girl bullshit just to see how I would react; so I played it off. She was giving me a ton of IOI's such as grabbing my arms and legs, staring at me, paid for one of the bar outings, when we kissed in the parking lot she was pulling my hair, etc.

So yesterday, she took me to lunch cause she lost a bet. She said she would be home alone and I should come over. Score! Well she tells me she had a bad day at work and I said that's cool I'll go out with my friends. She said okay that works (I expected a no, come over).

Now, its been a week and we've had 3 dates. Usually after 2 dates I get the bang but I think she is trying to 'lock me down' as a friend put it cause she is older and probably looking for something stable. I refuse to tell her that I would date her cause that's gonna lower my value, especially this early although I want to because I won't have alot of time in the beginning of summer to game. Stable = easy bang.

Today I treated her like she was just any other person and avoided her. She reminded me we are supposed to go out tomorrow night and I haven't told her any plans. Any new ideas for Saturday? If I get her back to my spot, I should have no problem getting my dick wet. Definitely going to have alcohol at the house when she comes.

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Thought about it at the gym, I'm gonna do something un-nightlife like such as go-carts. A new one opened up recently and its supposed to be sick, so I'll have fun at least. I'll pick her up and go for the invite inside her house, if we don't talk about going back to mine/hers when we are out. I'm not going to kiss her during the date or on the ride there, I'm only going to touch her etc but I'm not going to indicate sex because 1) I know she will and I just need to wait for the right time like tomorrow night and 2) She more than likely knows that's what I'm after. I'll update this thread again tomorrow night.

[j r]

(04-06-2012 03:24 PM)-g- Wrote:  

I'm 25, shes 31 and we work together... when we kissed in the parking lot she was pulling my hair...

So yesterday, she took me to lunch cause she lost a bet. She said she would be home alone and I should come over. Score! Well she tells me she had a bad day at work and I said that's cool I'll go out with my friends. She said okay that works (I expected a no, come over).

...I think she is trying to 'lock me down' as a friend put it cause she is older and probably looking for something stable...

Today I treated her like she was just any other person and avoided her.

It sounds like you're over-thinking this and, more importantly, you're trying to run 21-yo game on a 31-yo. Young girls are flighty, they're social butterflies, they feed on constant attention from men with little intention of following through on 90 percent of it. You game them by being aloof and drawing them into you. Once a chick gets to 30 a lot of that has changed and you're better off going direct. If a chick in her 30s is making out with you, chances are that she's DTF. Sounds like you had the green light to go over her place and smash it, but you got cute and she didn't take the bait.

This chick is probably thinking something like, "I kind of like this guy, but he's young and he doesn't seem to know what he wants." If she's already attracted to you, forget about all the PUA stuff and just go straight for it.

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I was thinking the same thing, different levels of game for different aged women. I've really only been with younger women and ones my age. Good experience going forward and thanks for the thoughts. She came over last night and we had a great time

[Zee]

(04-08-2012 09:27 AM)-g- Wrote:  

I was thinking the same thing, different levels of game for different aged women. I've really only been with younger women and ones my age. Good experience going forward and thanks for the thoughts. She came over last night and we had a great time

Its good to hear that you had a great time, did you go directly for it? I'm curious in case I want to run game on a woman older then me.

[Built to Fade]

(04-09-2012 01:00 PM)Zee Wrote:  

(04-08-2012 09:27 AM)-g- Wrote:  

I was thinking the same thing, different levels of game for different aged women. I've really only been with younger women and ones my age. Good experience going forward and thanks for the thoughts. She came over last night and we had a great time

Its good to hear that you had a great time, did you go directly for it? I'm curious in case I want to run game on a woman older then me.

I actually got into a car accident the night before. I flaked cause I was pissed about the whole thing but I welcomed her over. I was surprised because she came over, wasn't mad and even brought me some beer (I didn't want to drink, she did). She just wanted to see me so I said screw it, drank some and said we could do the date some other time (maybe). Yes, I capitalized on my misfortune

Older women (30s) are different than the 21-28 age group I'm currently night gaming... sometimes it just take a little patience