This thread was very helpful, appreciate it.
Improve your game by NOT doing these things...
Don't get yourself too worked up over one girl.
Don't lose control of the situation
Don't take her too seriously
Don't forget the baking soda
Don't lose control of the situation
Don't take her too seriously
Don't forget the baking soda
Quote: (03-01-2012 04:08 PM)Moma Wrote:
To piggyback G and Mixx, don't text too much. Only text to give her information as to where the spot is.
Pick up the phone.
Don't chase down one lizard too much. If she is fcuking around, dismiss her azz and bring on your next contender.
Don't get comfortable. Keep hunting fresh lizards.
Keep your body fit (if possible). Muscle helps close deals.
Don't use alcohol as a crutch. Try sober gaming and closing.
Younger members should leverage off older relatives/members with a private crib where you can slay in peace.
This is tough in my city.
These chicks cling on and the toughness of the city's dating scene creates an atmosphere where it becomes easy to feel like settling once you have a high quality lizard.
A big problem that I'm having lately is skipping steps, or not hitting them at the right time.
It's like Goldilocks- can't get it just right.
It's like Goldilocks- can't get it just right.
Quote: (03-15-2012 01:53 PM)Fox Wrote:
Quote: (03-01-2012 04:50 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
When a girl ask, "what do you do for a living?" What's a good indirect way to answer that? I hate that question, but you know it's inevitably going to come up in a first conversation with any girl over college age. If you dance around the question, she might think you work at some job you are ashamed of. But then answering it directly doesn't build any intrigue either.
I'm still trying to come up with a good one for this.
Im really into human trafficking, but my real passion is clubbing baby seals. Strong frame, either deadpan or smirk. She's gonna act offended and wait for the beta "ha just kidding". Reframe quickly.
What about this, when a girl ask you what you do, say: "A lot of things actually. But my non-disclosure contract won't allow me to talk about it."
Quote: (05-13-2012 12:20 AM)Rttnkd84 Wrote:
Quote: (03-15-2012 02:32 PM)Prowl Wrote:
I tell chicks that I'm a dolphin trainer, and then sometimes go into a bit about how they're the only animals other than humans that recreationally masturbate but that they sometimes need coaching to that effect, or something about getting them to mate, or whatever.
Obviously no one believes any of that shit in DC, which is sort of the point.
I get this question a LOT though, especially lately. I think it might have been a hairstyle change, but chicks are all like looking at me and smirking and going "What do YOU do? Looks like something political maybe?", or w/e. Then we talk about dolphin masturbation.
I have told many girls straight faced, that I train dolphins to detect underwater bombs for the Navy. In one instance, it made a girl call over all her friends for me to explain it to them. I ended hooking up with the second hottest of them that night. With that one line, I had a group of 8 women on a leash, waiting to hear every word I spoke, for the rest of the night. It is truly a classic.
I believe it. I once told a girl in a club with a straight face that I was born and raised in Mongolia and she believed it and was hanging on every word I said. Had her going for about 15 minutes unbelievably. Only when she started asking me some phrases in Mongolian did she finally realize I was bullshitting. Crazy what some will believe if you say it with a straight face.
Quote: (05-15-2012 01:43 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
Quote: (05-13-2012 12:20 AM)Rttnkd84 Wrote:
Quote: (03-15-2012 02:32 PM)Prowl Wrote:
I tell chicks that I'm a dolphin trainer, and then sometimes go into a bit about how they're the only animals other than humans that recreationally masturbate but that they sometimes need coaching to that effect, or something about getting them to mate, or whatever.
Obviously no one believes any of that shit in DC, which is sort of the point.
I get this question a LOT though, especially lately. I think it might have been a hairstyle change, but chicks are all like looking at me and smirking and going "What do YOU do? Looks like something political maybe?", or w/e. Then we talk about dolphin masturbation.
I have told many girls straight faced, that I train dolphins to detect underwater bombs for the Navy. In one instance, it made a girl call over all her friends for me to explain it to them. I ended hooking up with the second hottest of them that night. With that one line, I had a group of 8 women on a leash, waiting to hear every word I spoke, for the rest of the night. It is truly a classic.
I believe it. I once told a girl in a club with a straight face that I was born and raised in Mongolia and she believed it and was hanging on every word I said. Had her going for about 15 minutes unbelievably. Only when she started asking me some phrases in Mongolian did she finally realize I was bullshitting. Crazy what some will believe if you say it with a straight face.
I've always enjoyed being a Lion Tamer - "I came to these parts for the meat, the Lions are very specific about which meat they like to eat."
You can then use some meat-related sexual innuendos about the girl. If she's from a certain part of town you can say: "Yes the Lions have told me they would like to try meat from that part they hear it's very tender. Although some meats from these restaurants can leave you with a bad taste in your mouth, is this true?" etc etc. Can be fun.
Quote: (05-14-2012 01:24 PM)DjembaDjemba Wrote:
Quote: (03-01-2012 04:08 PM)Moma Wrote:
To piggyback G and Mixx, don't text too much. Only text to give her information as to where the spot is.
Pick up the phone.
Don't chase down one lizard too much. If she is fcuking around, dismiss her azz and bring on your next contender.
Don't get comfortable. Keep hunting fresh lizards.
Keep your body fit (if possible). Muscle helps close deals.
Don't use alcohol as a crutch. Try sober gaming and closing.
Younger members should leverage off older relatives/members with a private crib where you can slay in peace.
This is tough in my city.
These chicks cling on and the toughness of the city's dating scene creates an atmosphere where it becomes easy to feel like settling once you have a high quality lizard.
We live in the same city, bruv, so we are subject to the same type of pain.
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DON'T
-hesitate. Ever.
DO
-get rowdy and shit.
-hesitate. Ever.
DO
-get rowdy and shit.
Just fuck shit up Giovy...increase the wild/tame ratio
Think about some of these (excellent) suggestions in the context of your work/career, rather than with women:
-slow moving
-doesn't get out of the way for anyone
-makes declaritive sentences with strong vocal tone
-maintains strong eye contact
-doesn't rush to do favors for anyone
to which I'll add
-has the body language of a lazy tiger because of all the natural HGH and testosterone from working out
What do you think your experience will be like in the workplace? Rhetorical question.
I've quit plenty of jobs when I've felt disrespected. I'm still on the road to a true self-employed/independent income status, but there is no way you'll fit in in the average workplace. I won't go to a job interview, but I'll go and shoot the shit as an equal with someone who has an interesting opportunity.
-slow moving
-doesn't get out of the way for anyone
-makes declaritive sentences with strong vocal tone
-maintains strong eye contact
-doesn't rush to do favors for anyone
to which I'll add
-has the body language of a lazy tiger because of all the natural HGH and testosterone from working out
What do you think your experience will be like in the workplace? Rhetorical question.
I've quit plenty of jobs when I've felt disrespected. I'm still on the road to a true self-employed/independent income status, but there is no way you'll fit in in the average workplace. I won't go to a job interview, but I'll go and shoot the shit as an equal with someone who has an interesting opportunity.
Dr Johnson rumbles with the RawGod. And lives to regret it.
Ha. It's funny you say that RawGod, because I posted this shortly after I was promoted to a position with some leadership. I just wanted to list a few characteristics that I picked up from my mentor to remember for the future, should I fall to the valley of mediocrity. I also noticed a spike in the amount and quality of female attention that I received after spending more time with said mentor. Good on you for picking up on that..
Yeap, this thread was gold. More to come...
I never answer the what do you do bullshit directly. In Sweden, I hear that question within two minutes of meeting a chick. I tell them I have the best job in the world but it's kinda technical so we can talk about that later. This sends their curiosity though the roof. They usually try to circle back within a couple min but I hit 'em with another great deflection and they stay hooked.
Quote: (03-01-2012 04:50 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
When a girl ask, "what do you do for a living?" What's a good indirect way to answer that? I hate that question, but you know it's inevitably going to come up in a first conversation with any girl over college age. If you dance around the question, she might think you work at some job you are ashamed of. But then answering it directly doesn't build any intrigue either.
I'm still trying to come up with a good one for this.
"I'm a scientist" You can take the joke a million ways from there.
It works by text because it's short and answers her question and commence hamster.
It also works in person. If they can't tell you're joking, then they will usually say "well what kooiiind of scientist" and you say "guess". If you've already been talking/flirting for a while, this is a great opportunity for either her or you to sexualize the conversation. Or to steer the conversation towards some other type of fun dynamic. "Let me tell you a little something about the science of sexual attraction(or whatever else)". Literally can steer that conversation a million different ways.
Sometimes girls with a little more social aptitude can step to your game and say something like "oh yeah well i'm a philosopher" and you can continue fun role-playing type of convo from there.
Basically the "what do you do" question is like a shit test that's valid. As long as what you really do is legit and you're not scared of it coming up later you're good. But for when she asks that question you do not want to be drawn into "her frame" or whatever you wanna call it. And you can bring up the real answer to that question on your terms a little bit later.
Quote: (03-01-2012 04:50 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
When a girl ask, "what do you do for a living?" What's a good indirect way to answer that? I hate that question, but you know it's inevitably going to come up in a first conversation with any girl over college age. If you dance around the question, she might think you work at some job you are ashamed of. But then answering it directly doesn't build any intrigue either.
I'm still trying to come up with a good one for this.
I default to "stripper", then change the subject.
Quote: (08-21-2012 02:36 AM)RawGod Wrote:
I've quit plenty of jobs when I've felt disrespected. I'm still on the road to a true self-employed/independent income status, but there is no way you'll fit in in the average workplace. I won't go to a job interview, but I'll go and shoot the shit as an equal with someone who has an interesting opportunity.
Yeah, I agree. I started a thread about this topic some time ago - i.e. the fact that I find it hard to fit in in a workplace. It is definitely possible tho - one just needs to find a place where one shares the same mentality / culture. That is not so easy to come by tho.
I think the whole issue of cultural fit is a huge barrier for employment. Any other people having the same experience?
Sorry for derailing the thread, but I'm just curious about this.
DON'T
- Think whether or not your actions were "alpha" or "beta". Will definitely make you feel artificial instead of organic when it comes to having game.
DO
- Walk, talk, and act like you are the shit.
- Think whether or not your actions were "alpha" or "beta". Will definitely make you feel artificial instead of organic when it comes to having game.
DO
- Walk, talk, and act like you are the shit.
To follow up on the DON'T answer her questions directly, whenever you travel to a new city/country and meet a girl, the question "why did you come to this place" often comes up, to which I always answer:
"I heard girls are very sexy/beautiful/hot in this part of the world and came to check", with a smirk.
This always brings them to laugh, hit you on the arm, smile, or say "yea? and what did you find so far ?" to which you say "from what I see so far, it's kinda ok, not much" with a smirk...this makes her go crazy.
As for the "what do you do for a job" I always say "I kill people for money" or I'm a secret agent, but shhh it's a secret". Always works.
"I heard girls are very sexy/beautiful/hot in this part of the world and came to check", with a smirk.
This always brings them to laugh, hit you on the arm, smile, or say "yea? and what did you find so far ?" to which you say "from what I see so far, it's kinda ok, not much" with a smirk...this makes her go crazy.
As for the "what do you do for a job" I always say "I kill people for money" or I'm a secret agent, but shhh it's a secret". Always works.
Dont
Delete a chicks number if the lead is still warm. They usually text back in a couple months.
Do
Venue hop at least twice one a "date"
Delete a chicks number if the lead is still warm. They usually text back in a couple months.
Do
Venue hop at least twice one a "date"
The easiest way to improve your game overnight: Don't qualify yourself to the girl, have her qualify herself to you.
Doing so flips the traditional script/dynamic that 99.9% of other men follow.
Doing so flips the traditional script/dynamic that 99.9% of other men follow.
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