Girls who initiate sexual conversations on first date... And how i may be fuckin up:)
02-29-2012, 03:18 AM
As a guy we are always told, never bring up sex on a first date. What if a girl brings it up? Change the subject? Act cool? Or continue and call her on her shit by showing her how you are a confident sexual man?
I can remember 3 girls in the past month I've dated who have gone sexual in their conversations and guess what? 2 flaked and one i got a second date with but i exed her at the end.
First girl, met off pof(will send pics if asked privately)
During drinks she talks about some of the guys from pof, the creepers that she has dated. One guy she describes as a creep who told her during their first date that he was horny and wanted to have sex. She said that she was disgusted and totally turned off. She asked me if i could have sex with a girl on the first date. Now that I think about it, i totally fucked up. I said something along the lines of, "sometimes when i really like a girl i like to take my time." lol If i could go back I would change it up a bit. At one point she took her iphone out and we were fucking around with siri. She asked something like "where can i get a blowjob." At the end of the date i pulled her in for a kiss, she obliged with pressing her lips to mine and i let go very prematurely. I thought I would make her hot by letting her thing i was going to give her a full on french but didn't. I was being dumb
Any words of wisdom for this one?
Second girl
Met off match
Constantly would talk about how hot every chick was on tv or when i introduced, "marry fuck kill" into the mix. We discussed about how physical attraction is necessary and i asked her how she would feel if ryan renoylds would walk into the room. I said to her, "you would want to rip his clothes off right?" She said "yes..." She even got to the point that she would get down on her knees. Later on she mentioned about how some asian guy couldn't please her but a black guy did when she was younger. She's asian... Again how could i have dhv'd my dick or experience into the mix? At the end of the date i pretty much told her i wasn't interested in her seriously because I was leaving the state in 2 weeks. I could be a good friend and still have fun. She mentioned that she gets attached easily. I then said, fine then lets just be friends. Then we made out in the car. She says, "keep in touch."
words of wisdom again please
This other girl whom I have posted about was a knockout athlete. She didn't get into sex but at the end of the night she mentioned a prize she won from a tournament she was in. She won a vibrator(rabbit). I asked her "do you use it?" she says, "omg of course!"
ok... This girl was into me all night and we were kissing and touching and she even texted me that night afterwards how much fun she had. No second date. How could i have turned around all these comments in my favor?
I can remember 3 girls in the past month I've dated who have gone sexual in their conversations and guess what? 2 flaked and one i got a second date with but i exed her at the end.
First girl, met off pof(will send pics if asked privately)
During drinks she talks about some of the guys from pof, the creepers that she has dated. One guy she describes as a creep who told her during their first date that he was horny and wanted to have sex. She said that she was disgusted and totally turned off. She asked me if i could have sex with a girl on the first date. Now that I think about it, i totally fucked up. I said something along the lines of, "sometimes when i really like a girl i like to take my time." lol If i could go back I would change it up a bit. At one point she took her iphone out and we were fucking around with siri. She asked something like "where can i get a blowjob." At the end of the date i pulled her in for a kiss, she obliged with pressing her lips to mine and i let go very prematurely. I thought I would make her hot by letting her thing i was going to give her a full on french but didn't. I was being dumb
Any words of wisdom for this one?
Second girl
Met off match
Constantly would talk about how hot every chick was on tv or when i introduced, "marry fuck kill" into the mix. We discussed about how physical attraction is necessary and i asked her how she would feel if ryan renoylds would walk into the room. I said to her, "you would want to rip his clothes off right?" She said "yes..." She even got to the point that she would get down on her knees. Later on she mentioned about how some asian guy couldn't please her but a black guy did when she was younger. She's asian... Again how could i have dhv'd my dick or experience into the mix? At the end of the date i pretty much told her i wasn't interested in her seriously because I was leaving the state in 2 weeks. I could be a good friend and still have fun. She mentioned that she gets attached easily. I then said, fine then lets just be friends. Then we made out in the car. She says, "keep in touch."
words of wisdom again please
This other girl whom I have posted about was a knockout athlete. She didn't get into sex but at the end of the night she mentioned a prize she won from a tournament she was in. She won a vibrator(rabbit). I asked her "do you use it?" she says, "omg of course!"
ok... This girl was into me all night and we were kissing and touching and she even texted me that night afterwards how much fun she had. No second date. How could i have turned around all these comments in my favor?