[slubu]

I've been trying to figure out a good way to handle this situation but to no avail. Maybe somebody here can give me a great idea:

Girl - Lives at home, not allowed to sleepover, my place is 65 miles away (I live alone). Met her first time on a blind double date as my friend was dating her sister. Went well, lots of kino and she's definitely interested, but didn't have an opportunity to make out or anything else because her sister was right there and they are supposedly good girls.

Nonetheless, my buddy is an idiot who told her sister that I like to bang on the first date, so its almost certain she knows I like to bang. And she still is into me. So that's actually a great sign that she will bang.

I'm going out with her tomorrow night at 10pm, picking her up at family's home. What's the best move for escalation? My goal is date 3 to invite her down to my place earlier, cook food and go for bang. But between date 1 and date 3, tomorrow night I need to get some escalation going. A makeout and tit play should be in order. Obviously go get a drink somewhere, and then transition to allow for sexual advancing. But where? My car is on the smaller side and she is tall. And I can't/won't drive an hour each way to my place and back (also talk about a buzzkill to have an hour ride down where she can change her mind).

She lives in LA, just in case anyone has particular locations in mind where I can execute such a plan.

[WestCoast]

I use the fake beta drink walk on beach to private area and makeout/groping as described. Sounds like you already gave up on a 2nd night bang, don't know why but here's a suggestion and if it sounds like crap I hope the vets call me out so I can learn.

1. Meet at xyz place for a drink. Do not make out at all, build rapport maintain hardcore eye contact but give her a slight feel that you may be a nice guy since your fried already called you out. Anyway after this say "let's get out of here it's hot I want to go for a walk".
2. Thread. You know in other countries it is okay to drink in public, don't know why it's illegal here. I'm all for it in fact it's fun to drink outside isn't it? She'll say yes. Since it is LA you likely need to go to your car anyway in between just convince her to drink/walk on beach. Go to any store to get drinks to walk and drink with vodka/pineapple juice for aggressive people.
3. As you drink and walk and talk about travel/other random topics, find a quiet area where there is no one in sight. Sit down, escalate, done deal. Likely won't sleep with you because you're in public. Results in being all over each other. End of date she'll be so confused, is he a player? Is he a nerd? Was that a romantic move?

After that date 3 wld be a layup with any type of game.

[WestIndianArchie]

If it's already a done deal, is there no love for the Hotel Picnic?

[slubu]

Westcoast I like your idea, my question is where to find this area to go for a walk. I'll have to do some research I guess. Indian, I don't think it's certain she is down and a love motel may creep her out.

[WestCoast]

Haha this is why my signature is what it is!

You can pull this move in any location known to be quiet. You have a car, you're picking her up, she lives at home... Walk in the park... Pun intended because you can do this in a park as well. scope out an area and do the above routine, if she's more prude-ish the park may actually better than a gym. Also this is better executed on weekdays because less cars, less of a chance of someone "walking in on you" so to speak.

Another good excuse for the walk and drink is "oh man alcohol has a lot of calories, I think we should walk it off because I dont want to mess up my amazing body". You can edit that as it suits your personality, if she thinks u are a player then u can't be that aggressive. Should be a ez one.

[Mujeriego]

I had the worst logistics known to man for three months last year and did a fair share of banging in my car. It was cramped and I felt like I was back in high school but there was no way I was going to let that deter me. I have a draft datasheet on it which I'll try to finish tonight.

P.S.- Don't wait for date 3 to go for the bang! There's no guarantee there will even be a date 3. There's a great datasheet (can't recall who wrote it) about losing bangs by waiting. I'll link it if I can find it.

[FretDancer]

Those are some fucked up logistics indeed.

Maybe you wanna try finding a nice good quiet spot where you can bang and its going to give you extra credit at the same time.

[WestCoast]

Listen to FretDancer... You're in LA definitely doable but the plan I gave out has worked. Only issue is when doing this in San francisco one her shirt is off sometimes they freeze up bc it is 45 degrees out. I would not be surprised if you closed out, "good girls" just haven't met a real man yet.

[slubu]

All this makes a lot of sense. She actually had to reschedule from tonight to Wednesday because she had to be somewhere early am tomorrow. At least I know it's not a bullshit reschedule, as she left a minute long voicemail repeatedly apologizing and offering any other day to go out.

I totally forgot about that G post about public swooping, I'll have to reread it.

[WestCoast]

Awesome dude, the apology is hands down sign of "good girl" mantra. Not to mention the voicemail. The best one I have heard was when a girl apologized to me saying "yeah I can't do this weekend but I can do all of next week because I am just a 22 year old on spring break...". Don't be surprised if you end up closing, good luck!

[FretDancer]

Yeah, girls who give apologies that can be felt sincere are hard to find. Bitches should recognize