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02-21-2012, 12:36 AM
I'll try to keep this short. Wednesday in Miami, I open this solid 7, an Italian. She's drunk, giving me every IOI, and I'm basically doing no work. I isolate and take her to the dance floor, let her grind on me, and after about 2 minutes she yells "you're sexy" and makes out with me.
I take her outside to close/figure out logistics when her "sister" comes out of the bar and attempts the cockblock. I diffuse and she leaves by saying "I know what you look like, so you better not try anything". Yeah OK. I attempt to heat the fire again, and she's getting colder by the second. I go in for the kiss and she pulls away. In frustration I blurt out "you suck", and she proceeds on a shit test rant: "You're so cocky" blah blah blah... and storms away from the bar by herself down the street.
I sit there for a minute watching her walk away, contemplating my choices. I can either A) go back inside, get another drink, rinse repeat on another chick. or B) go after her.
I swallow my pride, and go with B) the Beta choice. I pull her hand, turn her around, give her a little spin(shout out for the spin move post), and she is still in full bitch-mode face. I say "look, this is bullshit, I like you, lets not let one sentence ruin the night". The look in her eye almost got me hard. She makes out with me and I ended up getting the SNL.
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02-21-2012, 12:46 AM
You got the lay, so I don't see how it's beta. Actually, it takes a lot of balls and game to see the way she departed as a big shit test, and then to run after her like that.
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02-21-2012, 12:48 AM
Basically you are asking this:
"I swooped a girl I just met, was that beta?"
This Alpha/Beta thing is really out of control.
Whats next?
"I had a foursome with Playboy Model Girls, and knocked out the guy who knocked out the Prince of Monaco. Was this beta?"
More importantly, which bar was this in Miami?
Break it down.
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02-21-2012, 12:49 AM
Some of you guys get too wrapped up in this alpha/beta bullshit. Who gives a fuck? You made out with, and banged a hot chick the night you met her. You went after something you wanted. You scored, man.
If that's beta, then I'm beta. The end justifies the means, in this situation.
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02-21-2012, 12:54 AM
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:48 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Basically you are asking this:
"I swooped a girl I just met, was that beta?"
This Alpha/Beta thing is really out of control.
More importantly, which bar was this in Miami.
Break it down.
The bar is in Brickell which is all I'll say. I got her outside using the let's get a smoke routine. So we're sitting at one of the tables outside when this happens. The place is packed inside and out with a line of anxious guidos trying to get in, so people are witnessing this unfold. I have a hard time rationalizing literally "running after a girl" in any way, shape or form. I guess it payed off in this situation, but maybe I just need to tone down the arrogance.
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02-21-2012, 01:02 AM
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:48 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Basically you are asking this:
"I swooped a girl I just met, was that beta?"
This Alpha/Beta thing is really out of control.
Whats next?
"I had a foursome with Playboy Model Girls, and knocked out the guy who knocked out the Prince of Monaco. Was this beta?"
More importantly, which bar was this in Miami?
Break it down.
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02-21-2012, 01:04 AM
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:57 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:54 AM)alphamale87 Wrote:
The bar is in Brickell which is all I'll say.
Weak.
Break it down holmes.
You are new here, share some Data.
Just so you know:
Not sharing information = Beta.
Fair enough, from the beginning. I rolled solo, suited down with pocket square to Baru in Brickell because this Colombian chick (8) I met on South Beach was working and asked me to come by. After she buys me a few aguardientes, she gets busy and I approach the first set. She says something about having a kid and I bail. I open this peruvian 7 and number close. Didn't get the vibe she was down. Then I open the italian chick when this happened.
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02-21-2012, 01:11 AM
Yea go ahead and name the bar, the best days to go, and any other info. Don´t worry its not like it will get packed with players because you let out the secret.
I think it would have been beta if she disrespected you. She called you cocky, basically a compliment in the US, and yea maybe you overgamed her by a tad though who´s to say you did since you got the lay. I know its not good to be results oriented but it doesn´t look like being cocky is hurting you, especially since you have the sense to beta it up and get a girl back that you´ve pushed too far. I wouldn´t change it unless its something you really aren´t liking about yourself.
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02-21-2012, 01:17 AM
I would normally never run after a chick that blew something like that out of proportion, but I just had the gut feeling had I not, i would not have closed. Normally not packed on wednesdays, good to go on thursdays and fridays though. One part of the bar is open toward the street, and another has tables so you can scope out the talent and see where they go.
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02-21-2012, 01:59 AM
Nope. It was pure alpha to be honest with her and take control of the situation. Beta would have been to apologize to her or her friend.
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02-21-2012, 10:12 AM
Even if your behavior was beta, would you go and change yourself if it meant not getting laid?
This thread is completely absurd.
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02-21-2012, 11:49 AM
How about this one:
"In the last three months I conquered half of Europe and swooped 100 beautiful virgin girls. Was this Beta?"
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02-21-2012, 12:32 PM
Just to get on the hatewagon:
"I'm bragging about swooping a girl I just met in the form of a question to get attention/validation/approval. Is that Beta?"
If you want to talk about a bang/night out go to the forum lounge thread. If not try to link your story to a bigger question or explain why you thought "SNL"ing a girl is a beta move. ie. I chased this girl down the street did this show neediness or was it you passing her shit-test which allowed you to fuck her on the first night?
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02-21-2012, 09:04 PM
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:47 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (02-21-2012 12:13 PM)Samseau Wrote:
Quote: (02-21-2012 11:49 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
How about this one:
"In the last three months I conquered half of Europe and swooped 100 beautiful virgin girls. Was this Beta?"
Beta.
How about this one:
"I just dropped Manny Pacquiao with a body shot during a sparring session, and then had a threesome with two 21 year old Filipinas. Was this Beta?"
I just banged a Victoria's Secret supermodel. Was this
beta?
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