[Vaun]

As the Ghostee - I would rather have a ghoster than a 'hanger on'. The ghoster is entirely clear about her intentions for me, and at this point in my life, I actually respect it more than get butt hurt over it. Why do I want a woman hanging around my life that I have to second guess constantly? Especially if she is a liability, damaging to ones self esteem or values or is just downright wrong for you. I only want women to remain in my life that closely match my values. I have made that mistake one too many times.