[jariel]

See The Truth



On October 2nd of last year, I received that unexpected message from a number that I didn't recognize. As you can see, I kept the message because given the type of person I am, it really resonated with me.

A lot of what I write about here at Real Talk Sessions, is the product of seeing the truth. It is a personal movement that I live by. That is to say, I believe it wholeheartedly, thus, I live it and I breathe it.

Since this is a game community, I challenge you to see the truth as it pertains to women, as it pertains to the game as a whole.

With that, I present to you, some hard truths you will see at some point as you go through the game and deal with women.


Bitches Beget Assholes

It is in a man's nature to look out for others. Granted, some of us may unconsciously put a little extra on the look out when we cross paths with a woman who we appear to find interesting, but it's only because we're trying to show them what we're about and give them a glimpse of what life would be like with us in their corner as a teammate.

Despite the fact that the entire universe thrives off interdependence, modern-day Western women have convinced themselves that they can go at this thing called "life" alone, until they can't, and then they look for those "corner men" when it's convenient for them and they want/need something from them -- children, security, etc.

This "I don't need you, until I do" mentality has produced the sense of entitlement, the selfishness, the promiscuity, the irresponsibility, and all of the other negative personal characteristics that we see widespread in today's woman.

Today's woman is called a "bitch" because that's the title she has earned.

Don't fall for the feigned outrage of women being called "bitches"; some of them are turned on by it, some of them call themselves "bitches", some of them call each other "bitches", they've worked damn hard to be viewed as "bitches", so don't take that away from them.

But here's the problem with bitches.

They produce assholes.

A lot of you guys in the game community are more likely closer to being "nice guys" than "true players", and there's nothing wrong with that. At one time in my life, I was a "nice guy". I'm still a nice guy. But I'm not nice to women.

I've dealt with too many bitches to still be a nice guy.

I do very little for women other than fuck them and show them a good time from time to time. That's about the extent of my investment. Call me when you want to have fun. Call someone else when you want to do the serious shit, because I can't nor won't do serious shit with a bitch.

As a result, most women would see me as a "player". I have no problem being on #teamplayers. At this point, our interactions with women are toxic, and that is more often than not their doing, so if at the end of the day, being an asshole means I'm going to get what I want without getting bit in a dog-eat-dog game, then being a player is a winning move.

As far as I'm concerned, women get what they deserve.

Good women tend to get good relationships with good men.

Shitty women tend to get pumped and dumped and/or end up with relationships with losers.

If she wants more, then she has to work for more.

If she wants more, she has to be more.

I've dropped a lot of people out of my life over the last two years. I had to recognize just how high my value really was, and there were bitches in this world who knew me intimately who didn't even really deserve to know my name.

Being an asshole isn't fun.

You often find yourself fighting against your nature, you often find yourself being and doing things not because that's what you really want to do, but that's what you feel you should do.

Most of the bitches who come across your path aren't necessarily bad people, it's just that they are losers.

You can't win when you're dealing with losers, and when you find yourself dealing with losers, it's easy to get angry, it's easy to become something else.

When that loser happens to be a bitch, it's easy to become an asshole.


She Doesn't Give A Fuck About You

Just by the fact that you're reading this, and I'm writing this, that gives us both some idea that we've never had any women who truly gave a fuck about us.

Some of us have been married, some of us have had children with women, and even then those women didn't give a fuck about us, and how do we know?

They proved it.

You ever notice when you break up with a chick, she's crying, she's emotional, she gives off the impression like the shit is going to break her world into a million pieces?

That shit doesn't have anything to do with you.

First off, women aren't stupid. They know when their relationships are on the rocks, and they start planning for after the shit ends. So that means maybe they start going out with friends a little more often, maybe they give out their number to a few guys, maybe they get a little more friendly with the thirsty dudes they work with, they may not do anything at the time, but they're prepping.

Women don't really enjoy being single, in the true sense of the word.

Hell, if the right guy comes along, she will dump you for him -- or keep you hanging around if it's convenient for her for the meantime, and she'll start the next relationship with him while you're still in the picture.

However, if you do get to the point where it's you chucking up the deuces, and she's acting like she's ready to get the razorblades, she's only acting that way because her getting dumped is the worst thing that can happen to her ego.

Her getting dumped means "He doesn't want me any more". Women have a never-ending desire to be desired, the ones who've likely never experienced that, like an ugly feminist for example, have created a mental shutdown on their desire because it's a defense mechanism, nobody wants them any way, so why should they act like they desire something that they can't get?

If your girl really cared about you, she would have fought for you. I'm not talking about sending you texts and blowing up your phone, that's erratic behavior that's met with a dead-end, because it looks thirsty, and as soon as a person starts showing thirst, they find themselves in a desert, not an ocean.

The relationship is the vehicle in which a woman gets all the things that she wants. Sex, companionship, "friendship", security, etc. She works it to get the maximum out of it. When that is taken away from her, she loses it, because she understands it's not easy to get, so now she has to go find that from someone else, and when I say find it, I mean hope that the next "great guy" presents it to her. We're the ones who create the opportunities here, if we didn't approach, if we didn't spit, women would be up a creek without a paddle.

After the next guy presents her with that paddle, you no longer exist to her.

So how much did she really care to begin with?

Never Expect A Woman To Get Better

However you meet your woman, at best, she stays as she was, but even if that is a best-case scenario, you can put all your chips on her getting worse.

The beginning of the relationship in most cases is often the best time, but that's because it's the fakest time.

When a woman is trying to wrap you into a relationship, she paints a picture that you'll never really see.

She is completely available to you.

She'll do anything you ask her to.

She'll fuck you like you've never been fucked.

She'll be the sweetest bitch you've ever met.

She puts on all these fronts to make you get weak, fall in love, etc. because for her there's an end game.

Then after some time, when she can no longer keep the fantasy going, you get the real her, and the real her isn't that chick you fell in love with after three months.

Your best bet is getting to the real her as soon as possible, some women are pretty good at hiding their real selves for extended periods of time, but most are not. I don't think it should take you more than a month to find out who the real girl is if you're spending quality time, communicating regularly, and your eyes are actually open.

Some of us fall into the trap, because even though the real girl starts to appear, the sex is too good, she's doing your laundry, and she's talking about how she's falling in love with you, which makes you feel special, so you're ignoring the realness when it actually comes out from time to time.

Lack of self-awareness is a serious problem most women have. They don't come out of relationships, look at what they did wrong, and say, "Okay, I need to do that better next time." They paint themselves as victims, stay as they are, and wait for the next guy to come along to accept them for who they are.

When a person lacks self-awareness, they can't get better.

So when you meet a chick, don't expect her to come from her last relationship as a better woman, understand who the woman is before you, and then accept the fact that that's the best she's going to be for you.

It's a woman's game to think that she can change a person, you're a man, you can't change a woman, because she already is who she wants to be.


Don't Think A Relationship Is Going To Make You Better

Some of you are good men and are at good places in your lives. However, diving into a relationship with the wrong woman will send you on a downward spiral that will take you some time to come back from.

When a man goes into a relationship, he has things to offer to the woman that can make her and the life that she has better. However, your life, and who you are will trend downward like Blackberry stock.

First, women will try to infiltrate every aspect of your life.

I saw a guy running today with his overweight chick, and he was two blocks ahead of her, and he stopped running so she could catch up.

I'm a firm believer in that working out is "you time". I don't have a phone on me, I don't allow any other distractions when I'm working on my body because in that time that's all I care about, working. on. my. body.

I can't get better if I have to worry about the fact that my chick is two blocks behind while I'm trying to get my run on.

If she wants to run, great, let her do it on her own, and you do your shit on your own.

Every moment does not need to be a team effort, so she doesn't always need to be there.

If she wants to be a good teammate, then she can have my protein shake and post-workout meal ready when I get back. Then she can rub my muscles with magnesium oil afterwards.

I don't need nor want her involved during the process because that's going to hold me up.

Second, she doesn't want you to get better.

I've said this before, women will actively look for ways to make you less attractive. They'll dress you up in ugly clothes and fatten you up with bad foods.

Doing so allows you to feel more comfortable, which is "great", because you feel like you no longer have to put your best foot forward, and you've found someone who will "accept you for who you are".

However, some women get mad when you dress nice. They get mad when they find out you have a gym membership. Because those things make you look attractive to other women, and other women are a threat to the life and comforts that you're offering her.

Sometimes you see attractive women with guys who are not, and they don't appear to be rich, so you wonder why. I can tell you why. It's simple, in a relationship where the woman is the prize, she can get whatever she wants out of the guy because he pedestalizes her because she's better than what he believed he could get. In that dynamic, the man is obtainable and controllable.

Now if that man lost forty pounds, got a new haircut, and completely changed his wardrobe, well now he looks unobtainable to her, and the fact that he reinvented himself on her watch means he's not controllable.

Women are self-preservationists to the end.

In the end, they look out for themselves, but since you know that no one gives a fuck about you, you have to make sure that you always take care of yourself, that you always make sure that at the end of the day, you're going to be alright, because she's not concerned with your betterment at all, especially if it means she won't get to be a part of it.