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(06-05-2011 06:56 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  

You have to look at the ages of these black women before making a generalization for the rest of their lives. If it's one thing I learned is that most younger females want the daring rebellious guy. When females are young, everybody is living with parents/guardians and none of the real life day-to-day issues come up for women to select men already "established".

Let me explain and I will use my moniker on this board in my explanation. The "nerd" of my name comes from me being a Math/Computer Science major in college. Now as high-school student and even the first 2 years of college, there stereotypes that comes with being in that major is not that enduring to the women.

Fast-Forward to me being in the last semester of college......

It became a little more easier for me to meet women on campus when I was wearing those suits and coming from the career services building at my school....or on my way to the airport for some job interview. Now I still struggled in my early 20's but it was better than high-school.

Fast-forward to my late-20's...

By now, chicks have Bride Magazine being sent to their homes. They are seeing their girlfriends get married. They have an absent baby-father, etc....so GUESS WHO is looking good now? The female's "priority lists" have changed and now stability and hopes of a nice house a picket fence is higher on the list.

The ISSUE is...do you WANT them by then? I agree with some of the other postings, black women from other countries will sure SPOIL you once you start traveling.

I completely agree with this-most of what I'm saying here applies to women who are under 25, before they are forced to wise up. I already know I won't want them, but they certainly do have a "change of heart".

Dunno if you've seen this vid, but it might be quite relevant to you:

This is the precursor video, also highly recommended: