After a few months of reading, I feel like it’s time to give back to the community. So here we go. This is my trip report of my time in SEA. It shows the progress I made and the problems I faced.
I want to start with a little introduction of myself as I think I am not the typical RVF Member and I want to give you an idea of what kind of a person I am to help you guys putting my written words into the right context. I am 22 years old, from Europe, 6 ft. tall, 160lbs. I am not jacked, have a slim body. Furthermore I had a very tight budget for this trip. Reason is I never had the intention to go to SEA to bang girls. I wasn’t aware of this forum until the third month of my 6 month trip, when I was already finishing off my traveling in Indonesia. I just wanted to travel. That was my priority #1. I usually stayed in cheap hotels or hostels, barely spending more than 30$ a day. What I do have is blue eyes and an (for Asians) attractive face + hairstyle (light brown hair). So yes, I am considered attractive in SEA.
Okay, let’s get to the interesting part. I traveled for about 6 months in SEA. The first 3 months I had no clue about the girl situation here. So this report is mainly about my time in Thailand, Indonesia and the Philippines. I never stayed for more than a week in one place, except Bangkok, where I stayed for a month. I also didn’t spend the full 3 months on chasing girls. I would say I spend about 30-40 days in total with the focus of getting laid. The rest was traveling on a budget and experiencing countries and cultures.
When I was writing this report, I realized that it is getting pretty long. So I extracted all datasheets and opened separate threads for them. The rest of my journey will be written down in this thread.
Indonesia, Manado
I still remember the moment when I first found this forum. I was on an 8 hour chicken bus (there was actually a real chicken sitting next to me) from Gorontalo to Manado when I read about Brodiaga’s adventures in Jakarta on my smartphone. “Damn, I really missed out on Jakarta” I was thinking. I had no idea that the girls in Indonesia are that easy. I immediately started soaking up every bit of information I could find on this forum and did my homework. I set up an Indonesiancupid account and downloaded Tinder and Skout. My pussy hunting trip had begun.
I used the first day to set up all my new apps and soon figured out, that Skout is the way to go in Manado. I messaged the 15 hottest girls I could find and only one or two responded on the first day. After 3 days though, I had some more responses from girls willing to meet me. The girls that didn’t reply are either not very active on skout OR too shy to meet because of their English skills OR just not interested in me. The latter seemed a little unrealistic, since I got a lot of stares when walking around the city or the mall. I didn’t see any other foreigner during my stay in Manado. People were asking me for pictures all the time. I felt like a celebrity.
Later I found one good looking girl on DateInAsia. She was pretty busy with university all the time but agreed to meet up with me in the biggest mall, if she could bring a friend. Well, she brought not only one friend, but 12 of them. But she was a nice girl and taught me a lot about the culture in Northern Sulawesi.
On my third day in Manado I met up with a girl from Skout. 20 years old, tanned skin, very exotic looks, good body, surprisingly good English. It turned out that she is from a very exotic island in Indonesia, which I don’t want to mention here. She picked me up at my hotel and we went with a microlet to her favorite restaurant for dinner. From my point of view, the date wasn’t going very well. She was very pretty, but also very shy. A combination I wasn’t even aware of until that moment. I was new to the whole dating (Asian) women thing and also not really sovereign. We didn’t talk much and went separate ways. I wasn’t expecting much more from her, but then she texted me that she really likes me when I arrived at my place. WTF. Okay, so we meet again next day for a drink. Conversation was much better than on the first date. When she asked me what I am doing tomorrow, I told her that I am leaving to Makassar tomorrow. A big mistake. She got really upset, even started to cry and refused talking to me. We shared a taxi, bringing first me and then her home. She didn’t say a single word in the taxi. I was seriously thinking what’s wrong with her. She knew that I will be leaving soon. No fucking 21 year old foreigner lives in Manado. But then it all changed. When I arrived at my hotel, she was texting me again and somehow I could convince her to come back to my place later that night. We talked, came closer, I kissed her and tried to escalate further when she told me that she is a virgin. With her already being in a very emotional state, I decided to not take her virginity and just gave her oral until she came. Afterwards she jerked me off – it was the first real penis she has seen in her life. The next day I left to Makassar. I never saw her again, but she is still texting me. I think she is in love with me. At that point I realized that I can easily have much hotter women in Asia than back in Europe.
Click for my Manado Datasheet
Indonesia, Surabaya
After my time in Sulawesi I was just about to leave the country. But not before checking out one more city in Indonesia. During my travels on the island of Java I met a French guy who was raving about Surabaya. He told me how easy it was to find girls there on Tinder. Challenge accepted. But again I faced the same problems as I did in Manado. Coming to a city and immediately finding a girl for the night sounds great, but it is a hard piece of work – at least outside the Philippines as I happened to experience later. All my Tinder matches needed some time. As well as the girls I messaged on Skout. So I just decided to meet the first responsive girl during the day at the biggest mall. She was a SIF, but at least she paid for my iced coffee. Another girl I met in the evening was a disappointment as well. She looked nothing like in her picture. On my second day I met another girl from Skout. She had a mediocre face but a huge pair of boobs. She definitely passed the boner test. We went to Colors Pub, which was ok but impossible to hold a conversation due to the loud live music. Then she basically pulled herself. She asked me if she could stay at my hotel this night, because she had to go to work at 4am (she is a makeup artist and had to work at a wedding the next day). Of course she can. We took a taxi back to my hotel, made out within 15 minutes and just when I was about to finger her, she tells me that she is on her period. Nowadays I wouldn’t care and fuck her anyways. Period or not.
On my last day I had my last date with a girl in Surabaya. Again it was from Skout. She was 27 years old and had a hot gym body. We met in a mall and she looked stunning. She was wearing high heels and a super short dress. The date went well and she gave me a hint to leave with her to her house. She was definitely DTF but somehow the anxiety came back. I was lacking sexual confidence. That woman was smoking hot, ready to bang me and I didn’t do shit. That’s one of the things that I regret the most now. Later, when I was in Bangkok and finally actually fucking girls, I got in touch with her again. I sexualized our conversation on whatsapp and she turned out to be a real nympho. She told me about her sexual experiences, sent me nude pics of her, pics where she is sucking two cocks at the same time, a video showing her fucking with her ex. Shit, I will definitely come back to Surabaya one day and finish what I had started:
Click for my Surabaya Datasheet
Thailand, Bangkok
I have tasted blood in Indonesia (not literally) and wanted more. It was time for Bangkok, my favorite city in SEA. After I spent the first 3 days to find an apartment for one month, I had my first Tinder Date in Bangkok. She was 26 and invited me to celebrate her birthday with her and some friends. After a few drinks at HOBS, we and 3 friends of her (all female) moved to Demo Club. It was Saturday night and packed with people. She was DTF and basically did all the escalation. She actually taught me some skills (Leading + Escalating in a club) which I later used on other girls in clubs. We ended up making out in the outdoor area of Demo and eventually went back to her studio apartment where she told me that she is on her period. Again. A girl on her period. So all I got was another blowjob.
Then I met thaifriendly girl #2, the hottest Thai girl I have met so far. 21 years old and very shy at first. She couldn’t even look me in the eyes when I was on an ice cream date with her at Swensen’s. After ice cream she said she has to wait for another hour to meet her friends. So off we go to my apartment. What happened then was a little surprising for me. I didn’t really expected sex to happen, since she was very, very shy. I was lying on my bed, she was walking around in the apartment. Then, she suddenly decided to take off her dress and lie next to me. Completely naked! She wasn’t even wearing any underwear when I watched her getting undressed. At that point I knew what’s coming next.
I met the girl again a couple of times, since she had a good body and was also not very experienced in the bed. I basically used her to get better in bed. And I was successful. I gained a lot of sexual confidence from fucking her. The downside: I spent weeks only with her which influenced my notch count. Hence, in my 30 days in Bangkok I had “only” 4 more notches (one from Clubgame, two from thaifriendly, one from daygame).
Philippines, Cebu
It was time for my last country. The Philippines. The easiest country in the world, so they say. But there was one problem. I was running out of money. I knew I couldn’t afford another full month of pussy chasing. That’s one thing every guy who goes to SEA for the girls needs to know. Pussy always has a price. Even here. You’ll want to stay in a nicer hotel and you will spend more money on drinks and sometimes food. I had to make a compromise. I decided to skip Manila, as it seemed a lot more expensive than Cebu City, which I picked as my next spot. Furthermore, I skipped all nightgame and focused on Onlinegame which happens to be very easy in Cebu. I spent a total of 4 days in Cebu, but not a consecutive 4 days. It was more like 2 periods of 2 days each. I was staying at the Tune Hotel, 5 minute walk from Ayala Mall. It turned out to be the best logistics I ever had. I had sex with 4 girls in those 4 days. All SNLs, which was surprising for me. In Thailand and Indonesia I struggled to find girls online who are willing to meet on the same day. In Cebu I always followed the same scheme:
1.First contact online. Tinder, Skout or DateInAsia
2.Arrange a meeting for drinks on the same evening at the terraces at Ayala Mall
3.Use some of the dating routines I developed
4.Leave the bar and walk around in the garden area of the terraces. There are lots of places to sit down and talk more.
5.Pulling the girl, asking where the next 7/11 is, because I needed water. The next 7/11 happened to be in the same building as Tune Hotel. What a coincidence.
6.Sealing the deal
If someone had told me 3 months before, that it is that easy, I think I would have called bullshit. But it really is that easy. I only faced one “problem”. On each of the 4 days I had a date at Ayala some other girl I was chatting with has seen me. They told me the day after. Cebu has a population of more than a million. And still every girl seems to be hanging out at the terraces at Ayala Mall. It wasn’t really a problem for me since I stayed there only for 4 days. But I can imagine this becoming really annoying if you stay in Cebu for a longer time.
Conclusion
So this was it, my first introduction to Asian girls and game in general. In retrospect, I could have done a lot better. My numbers in 3 months (or let’s say 40 days, since I focused on traveling most of the time):
Indonesia:
•1 Blowjob
•1 Handjob
Thailand:
•1 Blowjob
•5 Girls banged
Philippines:
•4 Girls banged
Total:
•2 Blowjobs
•1 Handjob
•9 Girls banged
What kept me from scoring more notches? First of all, my lack of sexual confidence and fuck anxiety in the beginning. I missed 2 sure notches in Indonesia, and another 3 in Thailand. Furthermore, I could have scored a lot more girls if I had stayed longer in the Philippines, respectively if I had traveled less and focused more on girls. I spent only 4 days in the Philippines with the intention of fucking girls. Last but not least, of course I was a complete beginner. I made my first steps regarding gaming girls. If I could do it all again, I am sure I would do a lot better. In my last days of my trip, my game was way smoother and I could pull a lot faster than at the beginning of my trip. Ok, this might be because it was the Philippines and girls there are easier. However, I am confident that I would also do a lot better now in Bangkok or Indonesia. I learned a lot about girls, about life and got much more confident during my trip. I am glad that I found this forum and I will definitely return to Southeast Asia - Jakarta, Surabaya, Bangkok and the Philippines in particular. But next time with more focus on girls, more money and with European condoms.
To finish this report, here are some tips I would give to newbies going to SEA:
•Pipeline using Tinder, Skout and various dating sites such as DateInAsia, Filipinocupid, Indonesiancupid and Thaifriendly. Skout is my personal favorite, as you can post messages and pictures on your “Buzzfeed” (similar to Facebook) that can be seen by girls who are near you and by everyone who is looking at your profile. My buzzfeed is packed with pictures that get likes and comments from a lot of girls I haven’t even chatted with. Sometimes I used to just post on my buzzfeed “who is up for drinks tonight?” and I got instant replies. Skout is the only Datingapp where you can use social proof.
•Always get a local SIM card so you have internet access with your smartphone and are able to use the above mentioned tools.
•Go to the Philippines first, then Thailand and Indonesia, then anything else (Vietnam, Singapore, Cambodia). The Philippines is the easiest country in SEA due to the good English skills and the open minded, horny girls there. Your confidence will get a huge push in the Philippines, making it easier afterwards in the other countries.
•Bring enough money! I would say you will need at least 50$ (for Thailand, Indonesia and the Philippines) per day (plus money for flight tickets) if you want to bang girls. A lot more if you go out and drink at night. Even more if you want to eat good western food sometimes. From my experience the Philippines are a little bit more expensive than Thailand and Indonesia.
•You don’t necessarily need a good body to be successful in SEA. Most girls there are petite and don’t really mind how much muscles you have. Nevertheless, a ripped body is always good to have. Height however, is more important.
•You don’t need to be an alpha male to get laid.
•Dress well. Don’t wear shorts, sandals or tank tops when you are in one of the major cities. Nothing says more than “I am a tourist” than those things. You can wear that on the beach but not in a city. If you go out at night, wear at least jeans or a chino with a well-fitting v-neck or a shirt and decent shoes. Yes, it is hot. But you will get used to it after some time. Besides, feeling hot is a good excuse to pull the girl to your air conditioned hotel room/apartment.
•Learn about the culture and the language when you are spending more time in a country. Especially in Thailand this can be a huge advantage.
•Always make sure that you have good logistics. Logistics are key, since attraction is usually already present when a girl is willing to meet you. You need to have a concrete plan how you will pull a girl, hence Logistics are very important.
•If you are not sure whether a girl is DTF, just assume she is and try to pull. That is especially important when the girl is not speaking English very well and you think you couldn’t build a connection.
•If you could manage to pull her to your room, it is a sealed deal in 9 out of 10 cases.
I want to start with a little introduction of myself as I think I am not the typical RVF Member and I want to give you an idea of what kind of a person I am to help you guys putting my written words into the right context. I am 22 years old, from Europe, 6 ft. tall, 160lbs. I am not jacked, have a slim body. Furthermore I had a very tight budget for this trip. Reason is I never had the intention to go to SEA to bang girls. I wasn’t aware of this forum until the third month of my 6 month trip, when I was already finishing off my traveling in Indonesia. I just wanted to travel. That was my priority #1. I usually stayed in cheap hotels or hostels, barely spending more than 30$ a day. What I do have is blue eyes and an (for Asians) attractive face + hairstyle (light brown hair). So yes, I am considered attractive in SEA.
Okay, let’s get to the interesting part. I traveled for about 6 months in SEA. The first 3 months I had no clue about the girl situation here. So this report is mainly about my time in Thailand, Indonesia and the Philippines. I never stayed for more than a week in one place, except Bangkok, where I stayed for a month. I also didn’t spend the full 3 months on chasing girls. I would say I spend about 30-40 days in total with the focus of getting laid. The rest was traveling on a budget and experiencing countries and cultures.
When I was writing this report, I realized that it is getting pretty long. So I extracted all datasheets and opened separate threads for them. The rest of my journey will be written down in this thread.
Indonesia, Manado
I still remember the moment when I first found this forum. I was on an 8 hour chicken bus (there was actually a real chicken sitting next to me) from Gorontalo to Manado when I read about Brodiaga’s adventures in Jakarta on my smartphone. “Damn, I really missed out on Jakarta” I was thinking. I had no idea that the girls in Indonesia are that easy. I immediately started soaking up every bit of information I could find on this forum and did my homework. I set up an Indonesiancupid account and downloaded Tinder and Skout. My pussy hunting trip had begun.
I used the first day to set up all my new apps and soon figured out, that Skout is the way to go in Manado. I messaged the 15 hottest girls I could find and only one or two responded on the first day. After 3 days though, I had some more responses from girls willing to meet me. The girls that didn’t reply are either not very active on skout OR too shy to meet because of their English skills OR just not interested in me. The latter seemed a little unrealistic, since I got a lot of stares when walking around the city or the mall. I didn’t see any other foreigner during my stay in Manado. People were asking me for pictures all the time. I felt like a celebrity.
Later I found one good looking girl on DateInAsia. She was pretty busy with university all the time but agreed to meet up with me in the biggest mall, if she could bring a friend. Well, she brought not only one friend, but 12 of them. But she was a nice girl and taught me a lot about the culture in Northern Sulawesi.
On my third day in Manado I met up with a girl from Skout. 20 years old, tanned skin, very exotic looks, good body, surprisingly good English. It turned out that she is from a very exotic island in Indonesia, which I don’t want to mention here. She picked me up at my hotel and we went with a microlet to her favorite restaurant for dinner. From my point of view, the date wasn’t going very well. She was very pretty, but also very shy. A combination I wasn’t even aware of until that moment. I was new to the whole dating (Asian) women thing and also not really sovereign. We didn’t talk much and went separate ways. I wasn’t expecting much more from her, but then she texted me that she really likes me when I arrived at my place. WTF. Okay, so we meet again next day for a drink. Conversation was much better than on the first date. When she asked me what I am doing tomorrow, I told her that I am leaving to Makassar tomorrow. A big mistake. She got really upset, even started to cry and refused talking to me. We shared a taxi, bringing first me and then her home. She didn’t say a single word in the taxi. I was seriously thinking what’s wrong with her. She knew that I will be leaving soon. No fucking 21 year old foreigner lives in Manado. But then it all changed. When I arrived at my hotel, she was texting me again and somehow I could convince her to come back to my place later that night. We talked, came closer, I kissed her and tried to escalate further when she told me that she is a virgin. With her already being in a very emotional state, I decided to not take her virginity and just gave her oral until she came. Afterwards she jerked me off – it was the first real penis she has seen in her life. The next day I left to Makassar. I never saw her again, but she is still texting me. I think she is in love with me. At that point I realized that I can easily have much hotter women in Asia than back in Europe.
Click for my Manado Datasheet
Indonesia, Surabaya
After my time in Sulawesi I was just about to leave the country. But not before checking out one more city in Indonesia. During my travels on the island of Java I met a French guy who was raving about Surabaya. He told me how easy it was to find girls there on Tinder. Challenge accepted. But again I faced the same problems as I did in Manado. Coming to a city and immediately finding a girl for the night sounds great, but it is a hard piece of work – at least outside the Philippines as I happened to experience later. All my Tinder matches needed some time. As well as the girls I messaged on Skout. So I just decided to meet the first responsive girl during the day at the biggest mall. She was a SIF, but at least she paid for my iced coffee. Another girl I met in the evening was a disappointment as well. She looked nothing like in her picture. On my second day I met another girl from Skout. She had a mediocre face but a huge pair of boobs. She definitely passed the boner test. We went to Colors Pub, which was ok but impossible to hold a conversation due to the loud live music. Then she basically pulled herself. She asked me if she could stay at my hotel this night, because she had to go to work at 4am (she is a makeup artist and had to work at a wedding the next day). Of course she can. We took a taxi back to my hotel, made out within 15 minutes and just when I was about to finger her, she tells me that she is on her period. Nowadays I wouldn’t care and fuck her anyways. Period or not.
On my last day I had my last date with a girl in Surabaya. Again it was from Skout. She was 27 years old and had a hot gym body. We met in a mall and she looked stunning. She was wearing high heels and a super short dress. The date went well and she gave me a hint to leave with her to her house. She was definitely DTF but somehow the anxiety came back. I was lacking sexual confidence. That woman was smoking hot, ready to bang me and I didn’t do shit. That’s one of the things that I regret the most now. Later, when I was in Bangkok and finally actually fucking girls, I got in touch with her again. I sexualized our conversation on whatsapp and she turned out to be a real nympho. She told me about her sexual experiences, sent me nude pics of her, pics where she is sucking two cocks at the same time, a video showing her fucking with her ex. Shit, I will definitely come back to Surabaya one day and finish what I had started:
Click for my Surabaya Datasheet
Thailand, Bangkok
I have tasted blood in Indonesia (not literally) and wanted more. It was time for Bangkok, my favorite city in SEA. After I spent the first 3 days to find an apartment for one month, I had my first Tinder Date in Bangkok. She was 26 and invited me to celebrate her birthday with her and some friends. After a few drinks at HOBS, we and 3 friends of her (all female) moved to Demo Club. It was Saturday night and packed with people. She was DTF and basically did all the escalation. She actually taught me some skills (Leading + Escalating in a club) which I later used on other girls in clubs. We ended up making out in the outdoor area of Demo and eventually went back to her studio apartment where she told me that she is on her period. Again. A girl on her period. So all I got was another blowjob.
Then I met thaifriendly girl #2, the hottest Thai girl I have met so far. 21 years old and very shy at first. She couldn’t even look me in the eyes when I was on an ice cream date with her at Swensen’s. After ice cream she said she has to wait for another hour to meet her friends. So off we go to my apartment. What happened then was a little surprising for me. I didn’t really expected sex to happen, since she was very, very shy. I was lying on my bed, she was walking around in the apartment. Then, she suddenly decided to take off her dress and lie next to me. Completely naked! She wasn’t even wearing any underwear when I watched her getting undressed. At that point I knew what’s coming next.
I met the girl again a couple of times, since she had a good body and was also not very experienced in the bed. I basically used her to get better in bed. And I was successful. I gained a lot of sexual confidence from fucking her. The downside: I spent weeks only with her which influenced my notch count. Hence, in my 30 days in Bangkok I had “only” 4 more notches (one from Clubgame, two from thaifriendly, one from daygame).
Philippines, Cebu
It was time for my last country. The Philippines. The easiest country in the world, so they say. But there was one problem. I was running out of money. I knew I couldn’t afford another full month of pussy chasing. That’s one thing every guy who goes to SEA for the girls needs to know. Pussy always has a price. Even here. You’ll want to stay in a nicer hotel and you will spend more money on drinks and sometimes food. I had to make a compromise. I decided to skip Manila, as it seemed a lot more expensive than Cebu City, which I picked as my next spot. Furthermore, I skipped all nightgame and focused on Onlinegame which happens to be very easy in Cebu. I spent a total of 4 days in Cebu, but not a consecutive 4 days. It was more like 2 periods of 2 days each. I was staying at the Tune Hotel, 5 minute walk from Ayala Mall. It turned out to be the best logistics I ever had. I had sex with 4 girls in those 4 days. All SNLs, which was surprising for me. In Thailand and Indonesia I struggled to find girls online who are willing to meet on the same day. In Cebu I always followed the same scheme:
1.First contact online. Tinder, Skout or DateInAsia
2.Arrange a meeting for drinks on the same evening at the terraces at Ayala Mall
3.Use some of the dating routines I developed
4.Leave the bar and walk around in the garden area of the terraces. There are lots of places to sit down and talk more.
5.Pulling the girl, asking where the next 7/11 is, because I needed water. The next 7/11 happened to be in the same building as Tune Hotel. What a coincidence.
6.Sealing the deal
If someone had told me 3 months before, that it is that easy, I think I would have called bullshit. But it really is that easy. I only faced one “problem”. On each of the 4 days I had a date at Ayala some other girl I was chatting with has seen me. They told me the day after. Cebu has a population of more than a million. And still every girl seems to be hanging out at the terraces at Ayala Mall. It wasn’t really a problem for me since I stayed there only for 4 days. But I can imagine this becoming really annoying if you stay in Cebu for a longer time.
Conclusion
So this was it, my first introduction to Asian girls and game in general. In retrospect, I could have done a lot better. My numbers in 3 months (or let’s say 40 days, since I focused on traveling most of the time):
Indonesia:
•1 Blowjob
•1 Handjob
Thailand:
•1 Blowjob
•5 Girls banged
Philippines:
•4 Girls banged
Total:
•2 Blowjobs
•1 Handjob
•9 Girls banged
What kept me from scoring more notches? First of all, my lack of sexual confidence and fuck anxiety in the beginning. I missed 2 sure notches in Indonesia, and another 3 in Thailand. Furthermore, I could have scored a lot more girls if I had stayed longer in the Philippines, respectively if I had traveled less and focused more on girls. I spent only 4 days in the Philippines with the intention of fucking girls. Last but not least, of course I was a complete beginner. I made my first steps regarding gaming girls. If I could do it all again, I am sure I would do a lot better. In my last days of my trip, my game was way smoother and I could pull a lot faster than at the beginning of my trip. Ok, this might be because it was the Philippines and girls there are easier. However, I am confident that I would also do a lot better now in Bangkok or Indonesia. I learned a lot about girls, about life and got much more confident during my trip. I am glad that I found this forum and I will definitely return to Southeast Asia - Jakarta, Surabaya, Bangkok and the Philippines in particular. But next time with more focus on girls, more money and with European condoms.
To finish this report, here are some tips I would give to newbies going to SEA:
•Pipeline using Tinder, Skout and various dating sites such as DateInAsia, Filipinocupid, Indonesiancupid and Thaifriendly. Skout is my personal favorite, as you can post messages and pictures on your “Buzzfeed” (similar to Facebook) that can be seen by girls who are near you and by everyone who is looking at your profile. My buzzfeed is packed with pictures that get likes and comments from a lot of girls I haven’t even chatted with. Sometimes I used to just post on my buzzfeed “who is up for drinks tonight?” and I got instant replies. Skout is the only Datingapp where you can use social proof.
•Always get a local SIM card so you have internet access with your smartphone and are able to use the above mentioned tools.
•Go to the Philippines first, then Thailand and Indonesia, then anything else (Vietnam, Singapore, Cambodia). The Philippines is the easiest country in SEA due to the good English skills and the open minded, horny girls there. Your confidence will get a huge push in the Philippines, making it easier afterwards in the other countries.
•Bring enough money! I would say you will need at least 50$ (for Thailand, Indonesia and the Philippines) per day (plus money for flight tickets) if you want to bang girls. A lot more if you go out and drink at night. Even more if you want to eat good western food sometimes. From my experience the Philippines are a little bit more expensive than Thailand and Indonesia.
•You don’t necessarily need a good body to be successful in SEA. Most girls there are petite and don’t really mind how much muscles you have. Nevertheless, a ripped body is always good to have. Height however, is more important.
•You don’t need to be an alpha male to get laid.
•Dress well. Don’t wear shorts, sandals or tank tops when you are in one of the major cities. Nothing says more than “I am a tourist” than those things. You can wear that on the beach but not in a city. If you go out at night, wear at least jeans or a chino with a well-fitting v-neck or a shirt and decent shoes. Yes, it is hot. But you will get used to it after some time. Besides, feeling hot is a good excuse to pull the girl to your air conditioned hotel room/apartment.
•Learn about the culture and the language when you are spending more time in a country. Especially in Thailand this can be a huge advantage.
•Always make sure that you have good logistics. Logistics are key, since attraction is usually already present when a girl is willing to meet you. You need to have a concrete plan how you will pull a girl, hence Logistics are very important.
•If you are not sure whether a girl is DTF, just assume she is and try to pull. That is especially important when the girl is not speaking English very well and you think you couldn’t build a connection.
•If you could manage to pull her to your room, it is a sealed deal in 9 out of 10 cases.