[Travesty]

Western Cancer's statement it seems like many girls will go for a gentleman type, thing is you act all like a gentleman and put in the effort you find out in her sexual history she fucked 3 other guys in the last 4 months running asshole game and you're just the savior. That's a hard pill to roll with especially when you've been the "other guy" enough times to see how it works.

I'd say 90%+ of the time here in SoCal if I have a choice of being a bit more gentlemanly vs. being more of a prick. I choose being more of a prick due to results using that. It is hard to switch that mindset on a flip when you find a girl that may be worth changing for. Good behavior for men is not rewarded nearly often enough so it is hard to keep faith in it.

Quick example, I am actually now against even offering to walk a chick in the dark (sometimes really late) to her car parked a few blocks away or the bus stop because I actually sense from them that would come off as too needy. I feel like that should be a natural masculine move to make, but my gut knows with many girls they actually disrespect it out of their need for self-empowerment.