[Suits]

(06-19-2014 07:32 PM)Galnuc69 Wrote:  

(06-19-2014 06:56 PM)Akula Wrote:  

Although this has some nuggets of good advice in there (define your goals, take the lead, say what you want, work together etc.) it's not exactly 1950 anymore and he completely ignores the massive elephant in the room that is Divorce Rape. And the fact that society beats up men constantly and tries to prevent them from doing these things 24-7 in America, particularly in the 'progressive' mainstream media. That and it basically tells all women that men are bad, not to be trusted, are screwing them over in the workplace and holding them back, etc.

The article is also written as if women who sleep around and ride the cock carousel throughout their lives will somehow transform into good, stable and faithful wives. Huh? Sure see how well works out.

(06-19-2014 06:20 PM)Galnuc69 Wrote:  

He is right, there is blame to go around for men and women, and we as men need to take the lead in relationships and in society at large. Women misbehave because we as men don't bring them into line. Feminism and all the social ills that evolved from it like single motherhood, divorce, abortion, the sexual revolution, are part a result of men stepping back and not only failing to lead, but failing to protect naturally irrational women from themselves.

Right now, in society at large, particularly among my generation, the millennials, but gen x as well, are abdicating our duty as assertive and dominant leaders. Being involuntary celibate for months on end just to hook up with a girl every once in a while or for that matter being a guy who sleeps with a new girl every couple of weeks won't make you happy, not in the long run. Nothing can substitute finding a wife and building a family. Without these things, a man is very empty.

There are a lot of reasons why men can't 'step up' and lead but suffice it to say that the political and cultural norms in the US are so skewed against men doing that (and for women trying to 'be their own boss') that what you say rarely is happening. Many women in American are entitled, narcissistic, obese drugged up sluts that are essentially not worth marrying. That's why so many guys are going abroad to find women who are feminine & genuinely want to be with a man (and aren't told 24-7 they don't need a man) and also want to have kids at a reasonable age and take care of the kids too. Oh and also aren't 20-30+ pounds overweight and unhealthy, or are Feminists, or taking anti-depressants, or want to raise their kids in 'gender neutral' households...etc. etc.

Also, if you think all women ride the carousel, you hang around bars too much.

Sure they do. A fatty might limit herself to five or fewer sexual partners, but a 7.5 or above (basically any woman we really want to be with) is going to have a sexual history like a deck of playing cards.

Any girl 7.5+ starts getting lots of male attention early on...real early. At 14 she is fielding male attention. Sure, relationships at that age are silly and stupid most of the time, but let's say she holds out to 16 before she kisses a guy.

No big deal, just a kiss.

She's not a slut yet, remember. She kisses a guy at 16 because he's her boyfriend. She's only interested in commitment. Then the quarterback of the football team breaks her heart. She moves onto the captain of the basketball team, who does the same thing after three months.

Finally, she finds true love with the star left wing on the hockey team and they go to prom together and date until they both end up at different colleges.

She's kept it pure though. Never went past second base. Good for her.

Then she finds out that the long distance thing really isn't working college seniors are so much cooler than her 19 year old boyfriend, who she can only talk on the phone with and never gets to see.

She breaks up with him. She's now kissed three guys and two of them have touched her boobs. Rather than feel like she's lost something special, she decided that a kiss isn't that special (not something she believed at 16) and that it's no big deal for a boyfriend to touch her boobies.

When she gets a new college boyfriend in October, she lets him touch her boobies right away, but within a month, she gives him a handjob.

He gets back together with his ex over Christmas, so it's time for a new boyfriend, when she gets over her heartbreak in March.

She gets a steady boyfriend, dates him until her junior year when she realizes that she's changed and then dumps him. Of course, with third base crossed with boyfriend 4, she starts having sex with boyfriend 5 because it just doesn't seem like a big deal.

Disappointed in missing out on certain hot guys during her two year relationship, she hooks up with two different guys over the course of five weeks.

She's now been with seven guys and had sex with three of them. She's 21.

By the time she graduates, she's had three false starts with new guys. She usually waits till the third date, because she regrets her hook ups and she's not a slut, but she's now taken dick from six guys.

This wasn't the plan when she met the love of her life (the football quarterback) when she was 16. It just kinda happened.

She graduates, moves to a different city to take a job.

Sex doesn't seem like a big deal any more. When she dates a new guy, they usually have sex by the third date, but if there is a special connection right away, she bangs them the first night.

She's picky, though, because she's not a slut, so she only has sex with three guys in the first year working in the new city. The dick count has reached 9.

She gets into a serious relationship for two years. Dick count is at 10.

Breaks up, has one random hook up, followed by two years of dating three different guys, but nothing works out.

She's 25 and the dick count is at 14.

No, she's not a slut, but she's now taken enough dick that she has a hard time remember all of them distinctly.

Imagine the dick count if she was a slut.

Three more mini-relationships later, she gets married at 28. The guy she marries isn't as much fun as the guys who porked her in college, but at least she isn't single like her career focused friends. She's a good girl.

Best part is, the hubby believes her when she tells him that she's only slept with four other guys. Including him, she's actually slept with 18.