@WIA that's completely true. I have only come across two individuals that sort of turned it around on me. One is much older than me and saw right through me. However, rather than call me an 'asshole' he actually took an interest in getting to know me.
I see it as if someone is smart enough to see what's going on then you might learn something from them.
I see it as if someone is smart enough to see what's going on then you might learn something from them.