Quote: (05-06-2014 06:51 AM)smokingshadow Wrote:
okay first thing i will say is that im a newbie.
Anyway i went out for 4 days in a row 3-4 hours each day doing day game i tried to go direct but i just could not do it first time in my life i realized i have no balls. my opener was just.
Excuse me i was standing over there when i thought to myself that i would be kicking myself if i did not come over and say hi.. because i think you are absolutely gorgeous. so who are you.
I just could not approach anyone even weak targets. i wont lie hot girls scare me. i have no problems opening indirect i opened a girl asking her if she has reception on her phone and got into a conversation with her. my conversation are weak wont lie but i need more approaches.
what did you guys do when you first started that helped you go direct.
iv'e got no problems going indirect being going round asking girls for directions for ages
So your glass is half full! Most guys can't approach...period. At least you can go indirect. Build on what you can! Approach indirect and then say something like: the real reason I came to talk to you is because I think you are cute...etc.
I also think direct is hard because it's insincere. You don't know the girl..and sure as hell you are not going to kick yourself if you don't approach her!...So the whole thing is a lie.
When I see a girl I genuinely want to get to know...I have little fear of approaching! It doesn't happen often though.