Third night
It's my third night gaming in SZ and I asked the American girl that I made out with for a date. Two nights before at a club we chatted for close to an hour before hitting the dance floor for another hour. I went back with her but didn't get to step into her apartment when she shouted at me (drunk and major LMR). So now I am on a first date with her which I just plough and plough, in the end it was a no go as once we step out from the bar she ordered her Uber (Didi), so nothing happened.
Forth night
Coincidentally a girl that I was hanging out without really thinking of gaming says she is visiting SZ and wants to meet, sensing major IOIs I decided to work on her. So I setup a date on my forth night here. I asked her to meet me directly at my hotel and ask her to go up with me. Once up we took some whiskey, some banter and made out. Since she was having period I could only rub my little brother between her legs and came then came on her.
Fifth night
I was super tired from work but decided to hit the club. No time to lose and slept in taxi on the way to bar street! When I got there the party was already started so I just opened a two sets which totally ignored me, and a random guy was ordering drinks so we hit up a chat, lucky enough he was with the table with chics I want to talk to, he invited me over and I game softly and the guys were mostly welcoming. It's an expat crowd so you have people from all over so every was recpectful and no one tried to push me out. To my credit, I did play it well talking to both sexes and showed genuine interest in their journey to Shenzhen. I gamed one Latina for a while but later found out that she's married and don't think she is gonna make out with me in front of her colleague so I ejected and by then it was 2:30am and I went home. I was an OK night, I gave two hours and though didn't have anything to take home, but the two hours was quite enjoyable.
Total: two openings in the club, two follow up dates, 1 (almost) close with everything minus penetration.
Observations:
I still pick girls to open, mostly focusing on foreigners in China. One is because my genuine interest in these ladies, another is because I get nervous speaking Chinese (Cantonese) which is weird because as an ABC they should love it. IRONY. I realized I don't want to look nervous in front of them.
By opening foreign girls and hanging out with the foreign crowd, there is a subtle attention that you get in the club, so that's a good thing - from both ladies and boys.
Overall improvement whereby I can open easily when stepping into the club, not needing alcohol to open.
Daygame is still hard, I usually open only 3 sets for two hour stroll. It sucks not being able to take charge and go on an opening spree.
Being able to get physical quick, I manage to hold both girls hand and be touchy on the first follow up dates, I usually start touching them when there's an exciting topic and their facial features get more excited. I didn't have any resistance, maybe a little pull back which I just put my hands on their legs and after a few minutes pulled back and then start touching again. I used to have very sweaty palms and felt awkward so this is a MAJOR IMPROVEMENT for me.
Girls look uglier in the day than they do during night game. Happened to me twice.
It's my third night gaming in SZ and I asked the American girl that I made out with for a date. Two nights before at a club we chatted for close to an hour before hitting the dance floor for another hour. I went back with her but didn't get to step into her apartment when she shouted at me (drunk and major LMR). So now I am on a first date with her which I just plough and plough, in the end it was a no go as once we step out from the bar she ordered her Uber (Didi), so nothing happened.
Forth night
Coincidentally a girl that I was hanging out without really thinking of gaming says she is visiting SZ and wants to meet, sensing major IOIs I decided to work on her. So I setup a date on my forth night here. I asked her to meet me directly at my hotel and ask her to go up with me. Once up we took some whiskey, some banter and made out. Since she was having period I could only rub my little brother between her legs and came then came on her.
Fifth night
I was super tired from work but decided to hit the club. No time to lose and slept in taxi on the way to bar street! When I got there the party was already started so I just opened a two sets which totally ignored me, and a random guy was ordering drinks so we hit up a chat, lucky enough he was with the table with chics I want to talk to, he invited me over and I game softly and the guys were mostly welcoming. It's an expat crowd so you have people from all over so every was recpectful and no one tried to push me out. To my credit, I did play it well talking to both sexes and showed genuine interest in their journey to Shenzhen. I gamed one Latina for a while but later found out that she's married and don't think she is gonna make out with me in front of her colleague so I ejected and by then it was 2:30am and I went home. I was an OK night, I gave two hours and though didn't have anything to take home, but the two hours was quite enjoyable.
Total: two openings in the club, two follow up dates, 1 (almost) close with everything minus penetration.
Observations:
I still pick girls to open, mostly focusing on foreigners in China. One is because my genuine interest in these ladies, another is because I get nervous speaking Chinese (Cantonese) which is weird because as an ABC they should love it. IRONY. I realized I don't want to look nervous in front of them.
By opening foreign girls and hanging out with the foreign crowd, there is a subtle attention that you get in the club, so that's a good thing - from both ladies and boys.
Overall improvement whereby I can open easily when stepping into the club, not needing alcohol to open.
Daygame is still hard, I usually open only 3 sets for two hour stroll. It sucks not being able to take charge and go on an opening spree.
Being able to get physical quick, I manage to hold both girls hand and be touchy on the first follow up dates, I usually start touching them when there's an exciting topic and their facial features get more excited. I didn't have any resistance, maybe a little pull back which I just put my hands on their legs and after a few minutes pulled back and then start touching again. I used to have very sweaty palms and felt awkward so this is a MAJOR IMPROVEMENT for me.
Girls look uglier in the day than they do during night game. Happened to me twice.