Quote: (12-31-2013 03:14 PM)Flavius Aetius Wrote:
Quote: (12-31-2013 09:40 AM)Suits Wrote:
Tragically, female hypergamy has resulted in a state where the only way a man has power over the length of a relationship is by always withholding something she desires.
Nailed it Suits.
So the only way this man is able to maintain leverage in the LT relationship is by not marrying her--since she seems desperate to get married. Once she gets that marriage certificate she will own him.
Right. Not proposing marriage is the ONLY leverage guys have these days.
It's not like we can withhold cash, sex or shelter once the vows are said. We've literally played all of our cards at that point.
It isn't like we are going to win at a round of silent treatment.
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