Quote: (12-09-2013 02:09 PM)MrLemon Wrote:
Quote: (12-08-2013 11:58 AM)runsonmagic Wrote:
As someone who wants kids and has family as a major life value, I'm glad to see this thread.
The manosphere advice on marriage is "don't... unless you want kids." But there isn't a lot out there for men who do want kids.
I would love it if someone who has personal experience here would write an ROK article. I don't have the personal experience (yet) to speak on this one, but I'm curious to hear what other (married) forum members have to add on the subject.
I've written a few posts on it. In summary:
1. You decide when to get married, nobody else
2. You pick a woman who is wife material. You discard your slut-hunting technique and laser-focus on wife-hunting.
3. Hot sex is still important. My wife was the hottest sex I ever had when we dated.
4. It actually doesn't matter what nation. The US has a lot of shit, but there are always gems.
5. Avoid career women, political women, feminists...of course. Look for the sweet, slightly submissive girls who want to be wives and mothers. Never over 30. There are a LOT of them out there but they are invisible in society.
Oh and, you gotta have money and/or a career. You will be expected to be the breadwinner. That's the deal.