I've been hit with 3 different cases of radio silence over the past week and a half. Since these all happened in such a short time frame, it has me truly questioning my efforts. Each situation is unique. What causes girls to become non-responsive? Am I doing something wrong, and is there anything I could have changed?
I listed my thoughts below each scenario. Are my conclusions accurate? I appreciate any advice. 6 months ago I could barely even talk to a girl so I'm hoping this is just another barrier I'll need to learn how to push through![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
Girl 1:
She was alone at the bar trying to find her friends as I approached her. We ended up talking for a solid 30 minutes or so. We were able to build some good rapport quickly since she was a kindergarten teacher and I spent one summer volunteering at a kindergarten back in the day (girls love that shit). I had my hand on her lower back pretty much the entire time, and somehow the topic of tattoos came up. She told me she had one, and that it was near my hand.
"You have a tramp stamp?"
"No, lower"
Then I grabbed her ass and said "Oh, here?", and she giggled and nodded.
I head up to the bar and grab us two cheap beers and we continue talking. Her friends find her and tell her that they're bouncing. My girl decides to leave with them and before I can even ask, she blurts out "Aren't you going to get my number?" I get her number, tell her we should get drinks sometime, and take the beer that I bought her back for my own consumption. She heads elsewhere with her friends.
Sunday night I text her: "Hey XXX it's redonion, how's it going?"
No response.
My guess - Probably just a typical no response that I've received from other numbers before. I thought I was guaranteed to set up a date after building up that much comfort, but I guess it's different for every girl. I almost always get a response even with much less attraction.
Girl 2:
Approached her at a bar and got her number. We met later in the week for drinks and I got her back to my place. I was able to get her shirt off but she kept resisting anything further than that. I called her a ride home and gave her a kiss goodbye (which she was still very much into despite aforementioned resistance). We both agreed that we had a fun time and I told her I'd be in touch.
I texted her 5 days later saying "whats up? Drinks thurs?"
No response.
My guess - She lost interest in me for whatever reason. I creeped her out pushing for the bang, or some other guy came along and I fell off her list.
Girl 3:
Met at the bar and we instantly hit it off. We both have huge interests in fitness so we talked alot about that. She was dancing all over me and I made 2 efforts to bounce /w her but she kept using the excuse that she was worried about her friend (who was with some other guy). Her and her friend decide to leave but before going she asks me for my number. I say "No but you can give me yours". She gives me her number then calls herself from my phone so she gets mine anyway. She keeps saying that I need to call her and she seems excited. We end up making out for a few seconds and she leaves.
The following text exchange happens:
(Saturday)
Her: Great meeting you last night!
Me: agreed. we're getting drinks sometime next week
Her: Yes.
(Sunday)
Me: Drinks tuesday at 8?
Her: Where should we go?
Me: I'll think of something and let you know. cya tues
Me (~10 hours later): lets go to bar X in Y.
(Tuesday)
Me: we on for tonight?
No response
My guess - This one I have no idea. I built a lot of attraction when I initially met her, and she was the one to initiate phone contact with me. My text game was a little weak, particularly the "we on for tonight?" - but her non-confirmation of the location threw me off. What could have went wrong here?
I listed my thoughts below each scenario. Are my conclusions accurate? I appreciate any advice. 6 months ago I could barely even talk to a girl so I'm hoping this is just another barrier I'll need to learn how to push through
Girl 1:
She was alone at the bar trying to find her friends as I approached her. We ended up talking for a solid 30 minutes or so. We were able to build some good rapport quickly since she was a kindergarten teacher and I spent one summer volunteering at a kindergarten back in the day (girls love that shit). I had my hand on her lower back pretty much the entire time, and somehow the topic of tattoos came up. She told me she had one, and that it was near my hand.
"You have a tramp stamp?"
"No, lower"
Then I grabbed her ass and said "Oh, here?", and she giggled and nodded.
I head up to the bar and grab us two cheap beers and we continue talking. Her friends find her and tell her that they're bouncing. My girl decides to leave with them and before I can even ask, she blurts out "Aren't you going to get my number?" I get her number, tell her we should get drinks sometime, and take the beer that I bought her back for my own consumption. She heads elsewhere with her friends.
Sunday night I text her: "Hey XXX it's redonion, how's it going?"
No response.
My guess - Probably just a typical no response that I've received from other numbers before. I thought I was guaranteed to set up a date after building up that much comfort, but I guess it's different for every girl. I almost always get a response even with much less attraction.
Girl 2:
Approached her at a bar and got her number. We met later in the week for drinks and I got her back to my place. I was able to get her shirt off but she kept resisting anything further than that. I called her a ride home and gave her a kiss goodbye (which she was still very much into despite aforementioned resistance). We both agreed that we had a fun time and I told her I'd be in touch.
I texted her 5 days later saying "whats up? Drinks thurs?"
No response.
My guess - She lost interest in me for whatever reason. I creeped her out pushing for the bang, or some other guy came along and I fell off her list.
Girl 3:
Met at the bar and we instantly hit it off. We both have huge interests in fitness so we talked alot about that. She was dancing all over me and I made 2 efforts to bounce /w her but she kept using the excuse that she was worried about her friend (who was with some other guy). Her and her friend decide to leave but before going she asks me for my number. I say "No but you can give me yours". She gives me her number then calls herself from my phone so she gets mine anyway. She keeps saying that I need to call her and she seems excited. We end up making out for a few seconds and she leaves.
The following text exchange happens:
(Saturday)
Her: Great meeting you last night!
Me: agreed. we're getting drinks sometime next week
Her: Yes.
(Sunday)
Me: Drinks tuesday at 8?
Her: Where should we go?
Me: I'll think of something and let you know. cya tues
Me (~10 hours later): lets go to bar X in Y.
(Tuesday)
Me: we on for tonight?
No response
My guess - This one I have no idea. I built a lot of attraction when I initially met her, and she was the one to initiate phone contact with me. My text game was a little weak, particularly the "we on for tonight?" - but her non-confirmation of the location threw me off. What could have went wrong here?