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I have known a handful of women who were straight, suddenly went full on gay, then came back in their mid-20's - their homosexual dalliances seemingly gone. Also, I know women who were physically abused by their boyfriends, but as they aged, those types of dudes were no longer attractive to them.

Why does this happen? What causes women to endure relationships they could otherwise easily abandon?

Check out this post about domestic violence by TLP

While the post is his usual brilliance, this quote is critical

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The thing is, BPD "works" when you are young, there are always people around to tolerate it. Parents, boyfriend/girlfriend, employers, etc-- and being pretty, which Trunk obviously is, helps a lot. This doesn't mean people are necessarily nice to her, or that she's happy; only that "crazy" behavior is more tolerable to other people when you are young.

Let's step through lesbianism first before breaking down domestic violence.

Review Of Youthful Lesbianism

A quick Google search revealed this Tumblr where self-selecting lesbians toss up pictures of their girlfriend and a brief description of their relationship.



Let's break this down through this relationship. The girl on the right seems to be cute - longer hair, cute face & smile. She doesn't look like a stereotypical lesbian. Sure, stereotypes are stereotypes but if certain hypotheses on homosexuality are true, then the vast majority of lesbians received male hormones in the womb that caused them to invert their sexuality.

Anyway, let's talk about this relationship. Notice many of the relationships started out as "friendships." However, this particular relationship did start out as a friendship, with two women doing what women do to bond - the divulging of secrets and personal details. It grew into a light petting, kissing and, apparently, sex. Sounds a lot like how women escalate with a beta, right?

My thoughts here are fairly scrambled, so let me set it out. Lesbianism is the female manifestation of betahood. Sure, you get some women, like Camille Paglia, who display levels of indifference, confidence & independence. Women like that are usually reviled in lesbian circle for two reasons. The first one is that women are collective - women that buck the group are never liked. However, that is what a man usually has to do to be attractive to women - you have to be your own man.

The second - and this is purely speculative - those women arise all sorts of sexual feelings that straight women get with alphas. Since lesbians don't get those sorts of tingles, they resent the implication those women represent. Do note women take their social hierarchies seriously and women at the top - in gay circles - will always be attractive. Women like Hillary Clinton will also be attractive because of political/social power.

However, that is superficial & initial attraction. Once a gay female realizes that the said woman, like Hillary, doesn't have the solid inner frame of an alpha, the relationships declines into "lesbian bed death."

Circling back to the aforementioned relationship, notice the brevity of the statement. Twitter & Tumblr don't emphasize depth of thought, but superficiality of thought. I know I am beating the drum constantly, but it is a reflection of our narcissistic society. I won't belabor the point further.

Notice the fact this is self-selecting - lesbians chose to post their photos & stories. They are seeking validation for their relationship. Note how all mention the length. While it means little without context, I feel by mentioning the length, they are suggesting its legitimacy in a temporal sense. The most seemingly confident descriptions usually claim to have been together for over a year.

The final nail is that fact they are ALL in their youth. Often, they seem to be in high school or college. This is why this is tolerated. Society, parents, etc. will tolerate this sort of experimentation for females. Not for males, but for women. One main reason is they are fucking other women - no risk for pregnancy. Also, they just don't hook up - they usually form relationships. Which fits in social expectations.

These relationships are not stable and will end within a year or two. It is true that lesbian engage in serial monogamy over the course of their lives. Not hamstrung by male valuation of youth & beauty, they can hook up at 40 or 50 with relative ease.

All this youthful lesbianism is just attention-whoring. As we shall see when I step through domestic violence, it is all about getting attention - from parents, authority figures & society. A few mention how their love is "forbidden." I would bet some women are doing to defiantly spit in alpha's faces.

Review Of Domestic Violence



Most rhetoric surrounding domestic violence is supreme bullshit. It ignores males victims, female perpetrators & is usually wrong on the prevalence of DV. However, let's focus on why women chose abusive relationships.

This is a horribly contentious point, but as TLP points out, women chose these relationships for one tried & true reason - the fear of abandonment. However, that is only one aspect, the other is showing off their abuse in order to gain sympathy - a kind way of describing attention whoring.

Let's talk about fear of abandonment. It is rooted in childhood and relates to the desire for intense feeling. TLP brings up the example of a father who beats his daughter, then showers her with gifts and accolades - until the violence comes around again. That sort of emotional high is addictive to a human - especially a female.

As an adult, she will act out these relationships. In her youth, when society approves of dating around, she will go around the block endlessly with abusive and cruel men. She will attention whore endlessly, starting petty bullshit with other females and her man. She will pit man against man for the high of male competition for her.

She will often be very feminine looking and physically attractive. Be warned, it is a smokescreen. BPD types need to suck you into their personal Hell & use you act out failed relationships with their father. They will want you to physically harm them. They will sometimes call the cops to act failed interventions by authority figures in her youth. If she sense the authority figures will solve the issue (convict you, ruin your life & toss you in jail) she will back off immediately because that would be abandonment.

TLP stresses that is the greatest fear of this sort of woman and you absolutely foolish to suggest that she leave. When feminists agonize endlessly over why women stay, they aren't worried about helping abused or raped women, they just need a public forum that will praise them for their stance. Notice TLP points out EVERYBODY knows domestic violence is wrong, just like EVERYBODY knows rape is wrong. When feminists make up mindless bullshit such as society condoning DV/rape they are just attention whoring, using women who are wronged by men as a way of getting narcissistic approval.

Let's sum this up, as I have to bounce really soon. When women are abused, it is about them. They want the relationship. They need the intense emotions & the rush of physical violation. Also, they crave the attention.

TLP's example is of Penelope Trunk, a woman whose blog you may have heard of. On her blog, she posted this picture:



THIS is attention whoring. She posts photos of her shapely legs & an injury on her hip. The most important point of the photo is her showing off her attractive legs, the injury second. Goodness, she is even nude! You can see her butt!

She needs the validation of her sexual attractiveness from her readers. She needs the comments to reflect that she is in a bad relationship. When somebody comments "she needs to leave" that person is actually encourages her to stay in the relationship because of the attention. Remember, any attention is good attention. Indifference is the killer.

She is a grown woman - she knows abuse is wrong. Telling her that abuse is wrong is just a way of signaling to everybody that you are on "the right side" - even though everybody is on the same side. Even abusers know their actions wrong - that is why you get honeymoon period of positive attention.

Note this behavior won't be tolerated once she is no longer physically attractive or youthful. Once society becomes indifferent to her life, she will either become a cat lady or seek a different type of male to feed off as - either he will be psychologically abusive or she could become a compensatory narcissist & dominate some beta - becoming the primary abuser.

Conclusion

In sum, youthful lesbianism & women who stay in abusive relationships are attention whores. They want this. They need the attention from authority figures & society. Youthful lesbians often hyper-focus on heterosexism because without it they would have no reason to eat their friend out. If society didn't care about homosexuality (true acceptance) the relationships would cease to exist. As for DV, women stick around for the attention, once that dries up they either have to change (rare) or find new ways to attention whore.