My travel to Budapest, Hungary from March / April 2013.
Quality of Women: 4 / 5
Ease of Hooking Up: 3 / 5
Things to Do: 5 / 5
Time Spent There: 3 weeks
Lays: 2 (Both Hungarian)
A little about me:
I am 28 years old. 5’11” (180cm) and 145lbs; I am not super attractive, nor am I unattractive – probably about average in looks. My parents are originally from Iran, but I was born and raised in Los Angeles, where I permanently reside. I am a newly grad Pharmacist, but only work as a Pharmacist a few days per month. My primary method of income is selling Apple computer equipment on Craigslist and eBay.
This is the 1st “escapade” I’m on. My friend and I set a “plan as we go” trip to Eastern Europe for 2.5 months. He does Internet work, so he works about 2-4 hours a day, I’m burning savings. I estimate that our monthly cost is $2,500 per month (each of us) for apartment, food, drinks, etc; plus, another $2,000 for round-trip airfare and trains. However, it can be done for less. I’m somewhat of a food connoisseur, so I’m constantly at restaurants for lunch and dinner. Also, since drinks are 1/3 the price than in Los Angeles, we tend to get many drinks when we go out rather than pre-drink.
My friend went to his first escapade last year to South America for about 2 months. After his trip, I asked to join for the next adventure. So here I am. He introduced me to the Roosh V forum directly before the trip, but it was until 1 week into the trip when I started browsing the forum and blogs. I must say, this is truly a single mans forum to read and indulge on. When I read the posts in the forum, it reminds me of who I am and what I like to do. Unfortunately my friends in Los Angeles either think about money and work too much, or do not have the capital to take a long trip like this. I thank Roosh and the contributors for all that is bestowed on this site. It reassures me that I am not alone and that there are fine outstanding young men out there traveling the world, not wasting their youth, against young marriage, etc. I am attempting to contribute a little back by writing this thread about Budapest. Please provide reviews – let me know pros and cons of my thread, any additions you would like, and if my post is wak and pointless and I shouldn’t write in the future.
About a average girl in Los Angeles:
In Los Angeles, I have been dating an Armenian girl (maybe a 6 or 6.5). In the ~1.5 months of dating, we’ve been on maybe 12 dates and I’ve spent probably around $400-$500 on restaurants and drinks. Not one time has she offered to pay; except for the one time she paid for my $1.75 tea at Coffee Bean. For my birthday, the restaurant came to $80 – even then she did not offer. But she did get me a $50 Zara gift card. I nailed her on the 3rd date. She is nice, a cool personality, but girls in Los Angeles are simply polar opposites from girls I have met here in Budapest.
Girls in Budapest:
Budapest is a city with many locals and many visitors. Visitors can be tourists or exchange students who study here anywhere from a few months to 4 years. There are a good amount of exchange students here from Germany and other parts of Europe.
Budapest is a city of mostly young adults; 20s and 30s; it seems this is the happening city in Hungary and majority of families / older people live on the out skirts and suburbs of the city – 30 minutes to 2 hours away from Budapest. Furthermore, I strongly believe there is a greater ratio of females to guys here. Majority of places I go, there is greater % of girls. At the metro station last night, it was mind boggling – there must have been 10x 2 sets and 10x solo; 10x rated at *7*. My apartment location is prime in Gozsdu court on the 2nd floor with a large balcony directly across Kolor Klub. Yesterday I counted, 7 groups of girls (some 6s, many 7s, and 8s) sitting in the outdoors area. It is 5pm now; I am outside in the balcony writing; there is 10 occupied tobles: 7 groups of girls; 2 tables mixed; 1 table guys – and majority of the girls are rated 7 or 8. I took a photo with my phone; I will attempt to attach it. I score the average girl here a 7.5. Some 6s, lots of 7s, more 8s than 6s; I see many 9s walking around; and 10s I see here and there. Their best physical attribute is their eyes. 90% of girls here have beautiful blue, green, or hazel eyes. It just makes them so alluring. People are not fat here. Girls have tall, thin, model’esque bodies. Majority of girls are 5’6” to 5’9” and with Ideal Body Weight. Language: about 20% girls have zero English competency, 20% with low English, 40% with average English, and 20% Fluent. When we walk down the street, we pretty much turn our heads to almost every other girl. Girls here have amazing bodies – breasts are usually B or C cup size, but they have nice behinds and are weight/height proportionate. It is known here that locals do not seem as happy as people in other parts of Europe. Many people have grins on their faces. I think it may be because it’s an old city with lots of old buildings / ruins and bad economy, people just don’t make enough money. I believe the average person gets paid about 100,000 to 150,000 forints, which is about $500-$800. This makes it difficult for them to splurge, go to restaurants, or travel as much as they desire. This is a benefit for us --- I have found everything to be 25-33% lower price than America.
Since Budapest is kind of in the center of Europe in terms of North and South, and even towards the center in terms of East and West – it’s a good tourist destination for Europeans. A few hours away from Poland; pretty close to Germany; far from Spain, but many tourists from there.
Where to stay:
Buda has parks, castles, and is the relaxing part of the city. Pesht is where all the bars/clubs/restaurants/cafes are located. Stay in Pesht. District 5,6,7,8 is the city center. District 5 or in between 5 and 7 is the best place to stay.
Gozsdu Court – We were staying here. There is about 4 buildings in the court. We are staying in building 1, first floor with a balcony overlooking Kolor Klub. In my opinion, I think it’s the best place to stay for a short term rental. If I come back, I would stay here or within 5 minutes walking distance. We are renting a 2 bdroom plus living room for 59 euro per night from “All-4U Apartments”. There is another company Gozsdu Rental which has the same apt rented for about $200 per night. In the court, there is Kolor Club, Spiller restaurant and Bar, Café Vian, and 2Spaghi.
Deak Ferenc – staying with 1km is a good idea. Deak Ferenc is like the epicenter of the city.
Oktagon square - Some people talked about staying here, but I recommend the other places I recommended.
In these areas, a very nice 1 bedroom flat is about 500 euros. But at that price, they are 1 year leases. The minimum you may find is a 3 month rental. Any less, you will be stuck paying nightly fees. But of course on AirBnB, negotiation is easy.
Please note that even if you stay in District 6 or 8, Gozsdu court, Morrisons 2 and pretty much everywhere else is a couple tram stops away.
Restaurants:
I do not travel solely for girls. I travel to experience culture, economy and people in other countries. I am a food conisseur and enjoy trying out new restaurants all the time. Even if you do not care that much about food, here are some recommendations.
Lunch:
Bors GastroBar – excellent; highest recommended; homemade sodas, pasta, sandwiches, and famous for their soup. You can get full off $4.
Castro Bistro – bar/restaurant – good food at low prices.
Caffe GianMario – Pasta/pizza; a guy from Italy owns this place
Dinner:
Spinoza – $$
Ket Szerecsen – $$
Chess Restaurant - $$
Csinaltam neked egy ettermet $$
Bohem Tanya $$
Vapiano’s $$
Queen Pizza and Pub $$
Vak Varju $$
Alcohol:
I always like to specify the type of alcohol because I don’t like getting hang overs from cheap alcohol. I stuck to these and did not have any regretful mornings.
Finlandia is their main superior vodka.
Olmeca is their main superior tequila.
Unicum is their popular bitter liquor similar to jagermeister
Day game:
I won’t lie, I’m pretty much a wimp and don’t initiate. I will only approach a girl who eyes me and continues to maintain eye contact when I eye her. So if you are a true player and initiation is easy for you, your success will be tremendous.
Arena Plaza
A large’ish mall close to the city center; good over the weekend; there is a restaurant/bar upstairs; the ratio is definitely to our benefit. Going during the weekday may be a good idea as well; since the mall is dead, the store clerks (almost all female) may be good opportunity; they are bored – so you are helping them kill time while doing yourself a favor.
Szechenyi & Gellert Bath House
A gold-mine for day game! I am surprised it has been overlooked. Perfect to spend a Saturday or Sunday, maybe 1-7pm. It’s a good time, relaxing, healthy. Plus, there is dozens of groups of girls. Personally, I think it’s better to pre-drink and go to Gellert than to the nightclubs because (1) I was the only guy hollaring and (2) the girls were in a good and relaxed mood. At the club, they are getting hit up left and right, they are annoyed, many of them over drank, they are running around either looking for a friend or trying to locate the coolest spot to hang out – horrible. At Szechenyi, they are just chilling in a warm pool, sitting to the side. Approach is relaxed and easy. There are other bath houses; but Szechenyi is the largest; most pools; most tourists.
Update to Szechenyi:
The first time I went was in early April. The weather was still super cold. It was packed with groups of girls, and small amount of groups of young guys. The 2nd time I went: late April – weather was warm – about 25 celcius. It was a major cockfest. My realization: when the weather gets warm, all the guy tourists’ head out and kill everything. There was literally a guy standing in every corner of the pool; there was almost no possibility of a come up. Seeing so many guys just killed it for me. Of course, we all like warm weather. However, the winter / early spring before the weather gets prime, is better because less male groups of tourists out; more opportunity.
Aquaworld Indoor Water Park
I don’t highly recommend it for the sole purpose of finding girls because it’s mostly families, couples, and 15 year olds – unlike the Bath Houses where it’s a grip of girls in there 20s just spending there day at the spa. If you want to have a cool day going down water slides called the CamaCozi and Black Hole, checking out 10 types of sauna’s, while seeing some tail walking around…then hit it up. It was $15 for a 3 hour pass and about $25 for full day. We got the 3 hour and it was sufficient; but you can easily make it a 5-6 adventure if you want to chill and holler here and there. There were maybe 6-10 girls total who were looking amazing; but all were with a guy. There was maybe a couple groups of girls without dick followers.
Zappa Caffe
On my way walking to a museum and a spotted a small courtyard; there seemed to be a university close by. There were many groups of girls hanging out in the area. Zappa Caffe was a landmark I noticed.
Andrassy Utca
Similar to Rodeo Drive – lots of upscale boutique stores with some restaurants and UriMuri bar. Lots of girls walking around on this street.
Deak Ferenc ter and Vaci Street
These 2 are the primary shopping and walking areas for tourists. Cool to check out. Lots of girls.
Night Game
Budapest is pretty much bar, restaurant, restaurant, bar, bar, gyro stand, gyrostand, convenience store, bar, bar, bar, bar, club, convenience store, bar, gyro stand, restaurant. That’s the city - ton’age of bars, restaurant, cafes, clubs, gyro stands, and supermarkets.
Szimpla Kert:
90% tourists. Thurs, Fri, Saturday nights are the most crowded of course, but groups of girls every night. During the week, I would head there at 10pm. Even though it’s tourists, the girls usually head home at midnight because the bar gets dead and they want to wake up early for sightseeing. Over the weekend, maybe around 11 or midnight at the latest - later than that, competition flourish’s and defenses go up. Amazing place to pick-up. We rarely got turned down. All girls will have a conversation. My game plan at Szimpla: once my shisha was ready, walk around to find the best group of girls and just place the shisha on the ground at their location and start the conversation. They usually want to try it, so it’s a good way to initiate. With this method, I had a 100% success rate of not getting the conversation rejected. The shisha sucks, but it is cheap and I think helps to initiate.
Instant:
Also many tourists, but some locals too. We went on a Tuesday night, it was dead. I spoke to the only group of girls who seemed good looking. They were from Madrid and leaving the next day. My friend went on the next Tuesday night and said it was crowded. I hear it’s a great place to pick up over the weekend.
Both above are highlighted on an article “Where to find love in Budapest”
http://welovebudapest.com/en/clubs-night...n-budapest
*One problem I found with tourists. Majority visit only for 2-4 days. Many of them come on a Friday-Saturday and stay till Tuesday. I guess it can be a good thing since it’s a one-night deal. However, not enough time in my opinion because they are always with friends and since they are visiting for only ~3 days, it is unlikely that they will leave their friends for you for 1 of the nights.
Morrisons 2:
Crowded on Friday and Saturday nights, but known to locals that Monday night is Morrisons 2 night; there is definitely more people inside on Monday nights. This club is more for University students; majority are 20yo-25yo. Morrisons 2 has about 4 dance floors. I do not recommend trying to initiate on the dance floor because there is too many guys. The outdoor area is the best to initiate; there is the most flow of girls walking around / hanging out. Majority of girls who I approached, reciprocated conversation. Saturday night – entrance is 1,500 forint. Monday night it’s 500 forint. Saturday night, before 9pm entrance is free and drinks are ½ price. However, I did notice there tequila to be light and my friend agreed. After 3 double shots of tequila, I was sober. There tequila is watered down before 9pm.
Utkert:
Nightclub / bar; more upscale than Morrisons; very good looking girls; but of course with more upscale, you get more stuck up girls. Even though we were not successful, I recommend checking it out since there was a good amount of girls and it was a cool place.
Kolor Klub:
I’m surprised I did not read about this place on Roosh. I great find. We live right across it. I noticed they have the music on every night till 5am; I was on welovebudapest.com and discovered it’s one of the highest rated clubs. Lots of girls – both locals and tourists. Can have dinner / drinks at Spiler Bar and continue the party directly next door at Kolor. Excellent on Friday and Saturday night. The barber I visited a couple blocks away stated its known as a good place to take girls home.
Trafiq
This is one of the posh, upscale nightclubs in the center of Budapest. 11pm is ideal to show up. We arrived at 11pm; some people inside, but not crowded yet. At midnight, we noticed a line outside. At 1:30am when I left, the entrance reminded me of Hollywood; guys were offering 5,000 forints for entrance and being rejected. 80% of girls here, I rate 7+. The only girls rated less than 7, were the tourists. There were numerous 10s, and many 9s and majority 8s. Me and my friend both arrived with girls (yes, gay; taking sand to the beach), but we were in shock. The girls were ridiculous looking. Dress to impress here; the girls are dressed up. I believe it is a possibility to come up. The girl my friend arrived with wanted to leave because it was too crowded and hot inside. He didn’t leave and ended up talking to a Greek tourist he rated 8.5. Too bad she left back to Greece next morning. A couple girls eyed me, but I was tied down. I recommend going here; but I feel in order to hit up a 8 or 9; it requires good looks and good game. Of course, there are exceptions. So go there if you feel comfortable with both your looks and game.
UriMuri
Another posh club, but not as posh as Trafiq. Majority of girls I rate at 7,8,9. Kolor and Umi Rumi are a 5 minute walk from each other, so I spent a Friday night going back and forth to one another. At 11pm, no line. But from midnight – 2am, there was a consistent entrance line.
Bars we haven’t been to, but worth looking into:
Fogashaz – Bar; very close distance to Szimpla Kert.
Zizi Bar & Negro Bar – Next door to each other
Minyon – nightclub
Boutiq’ Bar – A possible good place to check out.
Mix Bar / Nightclub
Morrisons 1 and 3.
One of them is called Morrisons Liget. Morrisons 2 is the most crowded. I went to Morrisons 1 which is less than a 5 minute walk from UriMuri. On a Friday night, I passed by it twice; seemed like it was dead inside. All the people outside were locals. Might be a place to check out on Saturday night?
Notes:
Over the weekends, arrive around 11pm to the bars/clubs. Even though the girls may not be drunk yet, it allows you to approach while they are still in a good mood. Once it hits midnight and later, (1) places get too crowded → girls get annoyed because it is difficult to move around / they get pushed around + (2) competition. Competition is not just bad because there are too many guys, but the fact is that it seems many guys just do not have game / do not know how to holler, so they just annoy the girls to the point that they will start auto rejecting other guys.
Online Game:
Badoo:
There is a ton of Hungarian girls on Badoo. Many are in Budapest; some in further cities. Make sure they are located in Budapest because the ones who live 100km away are not going to happen. I spoke to many girls. Many don’t speak English, so I started confining my search to English speakers. I was supposed to meet up with a 7, but I flaked and it’s been trouble planning another meet. I met a 18yo, but made the mistake of doing a day date. I spoke to a 6. She was down to meet, but wanted me to go to her. I was not down.
Plenty of Fish:
There are only about 5 girls in Budapest on the site. I messaged all. One provided a response and was down to meet. Once I added her on FB, she ceased responding. One viewed me. I messaged her. I banged her. See below.
Tagged.com
Waste of time I think.
Notes on online game:
You can plan a meeting/date after 10 minutes of conversation; they don’t do the back and forth BS.
My Flag:
2 girls and 2 guys sitting on a stoop in the underground area next to the stairs in Morrisons 2. My drunken friend was randomly approaching girls and speaking Farsi (Persian) to them; (he would get drunk, yet not holler; then get over-drunk and start annoying girls; didn’t really understand) Apparently, the 2 guys were Persian so we started to have a conversation. The girl sitting eyed me and I initiated. She had a rock’ish look that was sexy; about 6 earrings on each ear, a piercing across her nose between her eyes and a tattoo on her arm. She barely spoke English; we exchanged a few sentences; her eyes were glued to my eyes and she pointed next to her; signing for me to sit next to her. We exchanged. 2 other guys approached her friend; I pulled her to the standing position and made out with her for a couple minutes. We sat back down because she would not depart from her friend. Even when I was sitting there, the other 2 guys (locals) were talking to her. I could tell she was telling them that she was with me (she was speaking Hungarian and pointing to me), yet they would not leave. After about 10 minutes of Hungarian talk, I just kissed her, said bye, and walked away. I saw her a couple times more walking around the club. At one point, she told one of my friends in Hungarian to inform me to stop approaching her. I found it weird since we were making out like 30 minutes prior. I realized that girls here do not want to spend the entire night with you just because you had a conversation / made out. If they are with friends, they want to continue with their friends to have a good time. So if you get a girls number or make out, determine the possibility of taking her home same not. If it will not happen, get the contact info and leave it. Do not over approach.
I received her FB friend request the next morning. We spoke via FB for about 15 minutes before making plans to meet. Once we met, I realized she was using a translator because her English was limited to basic phrases and her understanding was minimal. We took a bus and hiked up to Buda Castle, could not find it. On the way back, I stopped at a restaurant for Wifi. I used google translate to tell her to come over. She agreed. Once in my bedroom, we made out and I sucked on her breasts, but she resisted removing her clothing. We arranged to meet another night. I told her I would like to take her to a bar or restaurant. I bought a bottle of wine earlier that day. When she arrived, I asked her “would you like to go to a bar or stay here and have wine”. She wanted to stay. After about 10 minutes and a of wine, we started making out and I fucked her 30 minutes later.
Since it was late March when I first met her, the weather was very cold. She was always wearing a coat. Once I got her naked, I was surprised as to how amazing her body her. Tanned skin, nice breasts, great round ass, and tattoos on her abdomen area. I met her about 5-6 times total during my stay. It was my first time dating / fuking a girl, yet not speaking the same language. Our conversations were via Google translate.
Lesson learned: If a girl does not speak English, it should not hold you back. Speak what you can and get the contact info. Use Google translator to speak to her via facebook. Also, whichever bar/club you go to, hit up the wifi…so if you approach a girl who doesn’t speak the same language, you can immediately have another mode of communication.
My Notch:
A girl views me on Plenty of Fish. I message her. We go back and forth with messages for about 10 minutes. We make plans to meet. I am staying in the prime area of the city where the majority of restaurants and bars are, and very close to the main train or subway stations. I give her my address and tell her to meet me outside at 9pm. 2 days after initial contact. Even after confirming our plans the day before, I'm weary of a flake due to the minimal conversation and her young age.
She looked good in her pictures, and looked better in person. 5'3", hazel/blue eyes, great body, beautiful smile, 20yo. We walk over to a bar/restaurant that is a 5 minute walk to my place. Apparently, girls here don't eat out at restaurants that often. They like eating at home. I get a soup ($4) . She gets a beer ($1.5), and I get one as well ($1.5). The entire time she is smiling at me and I'm glaring into her eyes because her eyes and smile are amazing. She is talkative. Her English is good, but obviously choppy since it's her 2nd language. Her accent is sexy. The bill comes to equivalent of $7. $8 after tip. I tell her I want to go to Buda during my visit; a nice part of the part. She recommends we go same night. She takes me to Buda castle, a 10 minute bus ride to the top of the city across the Danube River where we see all the lights of Budapest; a quiet location at 11pm. After about 20 minutes of looking around and taking some photos, I finally find a secluded spot away from the other walking tourists. I get behind her to rub her back / keep her warm; she leans her body back into mine - the first good sign. I turn her around where she then hints a kiss. We make out and I fondle her body for the next 15 minutes. A great kisser for a 20yo and a phenomenal personality; more mature, more conversational, cooler than any girl I have met in Los Angeles. The entire time she is smiling, eyeing me, and providing conversation and reciprocating any topic I initiate. AND SHE IS 20!!!!
We take a bus back down the hill where I live. I say, "I would like to spend more time with you somewhere warm. Come over. No sex".
She responds, "No sex?"
I say, "No sex"
She says okay.
We walk over to my place. Immediately upon entering, she takes off her shoes; which demonstrates respect compared to girls in Los Angeles .
She uses the restroom, then comes into my room and sits on the bed. There are no chairs in my room.
Side note: Tip 1: I realize there shouldn't be chairs in our bedroom because it will only serve as a separation upon entrance to the room. She will most likely use it. No chair = she will be forced to sit on your bed. Tip 2: there should be a no shoes policy in the bedroom. One less article of clothing and if she is sitting on your bed, then she will come closer to the pillow. If shoes on = she will remain close to the edge of the bed cuz she doesn't want to put her shoes on your mattress.
After a few minutes we start making out. I start kissing her chest and grabbing her breast - I undo her bra. She takes off her bra while grabbing my belt. We both take off our pants. Her thong is dripping wet like somebody just put a hose to it. I rub my dick against her thong and asked her do you want it? Shes says, "yes, please".
While banging her, she reiterates "thank you, thank you" a dozen times. A fuk her again 20 min later doggy style and she orgasms. We sleep. I fuk her again at 6:30am. We take a shower together. At 7am, i walk her to the train station 5 minutes away. She gives me a kiss and wants me to stay until her birthday, which is in 10 days.
Last tip: when you tell a girl to come over, but no sex - The girl gets more comfortable. She wants reassurance that she is not going to get harassed upon entering your place. The girl wants to just chill and chat. But you know that will in turn a sexual visit once you give her a glass of wine and start making out with her in your room which there is only a bed. It makes you seem like a nice guy and gets her comfortable - and that comfort, in turn will make it easier to get into her pants. (Thanks Roosh for the tip)
Initiation Experiences:
Szechenyi Bath House - I was in one of the warm indoor pools. I spotted a group of 3 girls just chilling, so I built my confidence and hollered. My friend cock-blocked. So I moved to the next, which to my luck was much better looking; I’d give her a 7.5 - 8 – 5’8”, thin, blue eyes, wonderful smile, great body. Throughout our talk, she was consistently smiling; she was from Poland and will be moving to Krakow on May 2; coincidentally, around the same time I will be visiting.
Aquaworld - I spotted one walking solo, then noticed her having lunch solo. Me and the 3 guys I was with were in shock – she was truly a 9. Tanned body, dark facial features, 5’9 height, amazing ass, and wearing a thong. I spot her again on the other side of the warm pool. I slowly diverged from my friends (since I’ve noticed they kill moments and cock-block) to the other side of the pool where she was sitting; solo again. I asked, “where are you from; you don’t look like you’re from Hungary”. Her response, “Serbia”. Next thing I know, her butt is in the air 2 foot from my face as she dived to the other side of the pool. After her diving into the water like that, I was like “wow”. I watched her walk over to the other cold pool to do laps. I was in the mood to do some laps anyways, so I walked over. As I started, she was half way to the other side. I pretty much did 3 laps till I caught up with her. She was super fast; I couldn’t keep up. I was super out of breathe, but initiated and it led to a 10-minute conversation. I asked who she was there with. She responded, “her boyfriend.” He was lounging reading a book. She progressed to saying she owns a hostess (or escort) business is Belgrade. She told me to add her on Facebook. I could tell she was definitely interested, and would hang during her stay if her boyfriend was in the picture.
Szimpla - I met 18yo German Exchange student; probably a 7.5 (added her on fb and messaged to make plans; she said she would let me know, but then didn’t respond). My friend met a Cuban dancer, but then couldn’t locate her on facebook. Another friend met a girl and made out with her. She told him she wants to F**k, but not same night because she had to shave down there first. Getting the shisha is a brilliant idea because girls want to try it.
Possible useful tips:
A problem with bath houses and water parks: You cannot carry around your phone to save contact info. The Polish girl: I had her spell her full name letter by letter and I repeated in my head a dozen times until I ditched my friends just to go to my locker and type her name in my phone. The Serbian girl: her name was way too long and difficult; she gave me her website and I found her name on there.
Great thing about Europe:
Here, the public transportation system is great; thus, guys are not expected to have cars or pick a girl up. If you are living in the city center, you can tell a girl to meet at your place because (1) there is lots of bars/restaurants around and (2) you do not know the area that well.
Length of stay:
Girls here will have sex quite quickly, but do not like going out with guys who are going to leave in the next couple days. They obviously do not want to build feelings / have sex, and then you leave right after. The 3 most frequent questions: How long have you been in Budapest? How long are you staying for? How do you like it here thus far? I think it’s best to stay for at least a couple weeks or a couple months; I’ve realized, the longer you stay, the better. Girls like it when the guy is there to stay.
The average Hungarian girl:
As I said before, many girls are raised in low-income families. Because of lack of money, they do not go out often; they are not happy; they get bored. The average girl here does not expect anything from a guy because they are accustomed to Hungarian guys who cannot provide. Some examples: I asked my flag to join me for dinner several times. She declined. It seems because they are just accustomed to eating at home because they do not have money for restaurants. If she is making 100,000 forints per month, she cannot pay 2,000 forints (2% of her income) on 1 dinner. A morning after she slept over, I asked her to join me at breakfast. At the restaurant, I forced her to order breakfast. She did not want anything. Later she texted me saying it was delicious. Other dates I went on were at little or no cost. You can easy go on numerous dates without spending any money.
I met a group of Iranian guys who have lived here for years. I went out to dinner with them and 2 of them brought their Hungarian girlfriends along. While we were speaking in Farsi, joking around, and laughing; the girls remained quiet and did not bother the guys once. One of the guys explained that he pays for the apartment, he has a car, and she just pays some of the utilities – and he was attractive. He said that this girl will not find a Hungarian guy like me. “I pay for her stuff and I tell her what to do. If she bitches, I get in the car and leave. 10 hours later, she calls me crying and apologizing. I go out to clubs with my friends and come home 5am. She will not dare say a word” In America, a girl will not allow that. “Why are you speaking in another language; why this; why that”. Another one of the guys lived is Szeged which is only locals. He learned Hungarian. He said that he was like a prince there; everybody is poor and he was the only non-Hungarian. “Since I learned to speak Hungarian, I could bang which ever girl I wanted. Even in Budapest, because I speak Hungarian, but I’m a foreigner, and have money; every girl likes me.” We went to smoke shisha at 1am. He called a girl rate a 8; he told her in Hungarian, “get dressed, make yourself pretty, and join us”. She joined, and he went home with her. He also has 2 girlfriends – a Turkish and a Hungarian. Basically, if you stay for a long period and they know it – a major plus. If you speak Hungarian – a super major plus.
If you can pull off learning Hungarian, Szeged is also a great place to visit. Gorgeous girls and no travelers.
In conclusion:
From what I hear, the most attractive girls in Europe are in Serbia and Croatia, but Budapest definitely is up there in my opinion. The average girl here is a 7 with many 8s, 9s, and 10s.. Also, I hear it is definitely easier to get notches in Kiev, but if you have moderate game and moderate looks, you will do well here as well. I think if you are committed and good at what you do, you can get 1 to 2 new fucks per week. I got my flag the first time I went out and the notch from online. From what it seems, it is possible to get one night stands. But most likely, if you meet at a bar/club, you will not fuck same night, but maybe on the first date.
Sorry for writing a book. Just wanted to be complete and provide some of my experiences as well. Also, sorry for the grammatical errors. I spent a shit load of time writing this and I’m over it now. If there are any major grammatical errors, something you don't understand, or any language I am not allowed to use; let me know.
Quality of Women: 4 / 5
Ease of Hooking Up: 3 / 5
Things to Do: 5 / 5
Time Spent There: 3 weeks
Lays: 2 (Both Hungarian)
A little about me:
I am 28 years old. 5’11” (180cm) and 145lbs; I am not super attractive, nor am I unattractive – probably about average in looks. My parents are originally from Iran, but I was born and raised in Los Angeles, where I permanently reside. I am a newly grad Pharmacist, but only work as a Pharmacist a few days per month. My primary method of income is selling Apple computer equipment on Craigslist and eBay.
This is the 1st “escapade” I’m on. My friend and I set a “plan as we go” trip to Eastern Europe for 2.5 months. He does Internet work, so he works about 2-4 hours a day, I’m burning savings. I estimate that our monthly cost is $2,500 per month (each of us) for apartment, food, drinks, etc; plus, another $2,000 for round-trip airfare and trains. However, it can be done for less. I’m somewhat of a food connoisseur, so I’m constantly at restaurants for lunch and dinner. Also, since drinks are 1/3 the price than in Los Angeles, we tend to get many drinks when we go out rather than pre-drink.
My friend went to his first escapade last year to South America for about 2 months. After his trip, I asked to join for the next adventure. So here I am. He introduced me to the Roosh V forum directly before the trip, but it was until 1 week into the trip when I started browsing the forum and blogs. I must say, this is truly a single mans forum to read and indulge on. When I read the posts in the forum, it reminds me of who I am and what I like to do. Unfortunately my friends in Los Angeles either think about money and work too much, or do not have the capital to take a long trip like this. I thank Roosh and the contributors for all that is bestowed on this site. It reassures me that I am not alone and that there are fine outstanding young men out there traveling the world, not wasting their youth, against young marriage, etc. I am attempting to contribute a little back by writing this thread about Budapest. Please provide reviews – let me know pros and cons of my thread, any additions you would like, and if my post is wak and pointless and I shouldn’t write in the future.
About a average girl in Los Angeles:
In Los Angeles, I have been dating an Armenian girl (maybe a 6 or 6.5). In the ~1.5 months of dating, we’ve been on maybe 12 dates and I’ve spent probably around $400-$500 on restaurants and drinks. Not one time has she offered to pay; except for the one time she paid for my $1.75 tea at Coffee Bean. For my birthday, the restaurant came to $80 – even then she did not offer. But she did get me a $50 Zara gift card. I nailed her on the 3rd date. She is nice, a cool personality, but girls in Los Angeles are simply polar opposites from girls I have met here in Budapest.
Girls in Budapest:
Budapest is a city with many locals and many visitors. Visitors can be tourists or exchange students who study here anywhere from a few months to 4 years. There are a good amount of exchange students here from Germany and other parts of Europe.
Budapest is a city of mostly young adults; 20s and 30s; it seems this is the happening city in Hungary and majority of families / older people live on the out skirts and suburbs of the city – 30 minutes to 2 hours away from Budapest. Furthermore, I strongly believe there is a greater ratio of females to guys here. Majority of places I go, there is greater % of girls. At the metro station last night, it was mind boggling – there must have been 10x 2 sets and 10x solo; 10x rated at *7*. My apartment location is prime in Gozsdu court on the 2nd floor with a large balcony directly across Kolor Klub. Yesterday I counted, 7 groups of girls (some 6s, many 7s, and 8s) sitting in the outdoors area. It is 5pm now; I am outside in the balcony writing; there is 10 occupied tobles: 7 groups of girls; 2 tables mixed; 1 table guys – and majority of the girls are rated 7 or 8. I took a photo with my phone; I will attempt to attach it. I score the average girl here a 7.5. Some 6s, lots of 7s, more 8s than 6s; I see many 9s walking around; and 10s I see here and there. Their best physical attribute is their eyes. 90% of girls here have beautiful blue, green, or hazel eyes. It just makes them so alluring. People are not fat here. Girls have tall, thin, model’esque bodies. Majority of girls are 5’6” to 5’9” and with Ideal Body Weight. Language: about 20% girls have zero English competency, 20% with low English, 40% with average English, and 20% Fluent. When we walk down the street, we pretty much turn our heads to almost every other girl. Girls here have amazing bodies – breasts are usually B or C cup size, but they have nice behinds and are weight/height proportionate. It is known here that locals do not seem as happy as people in other parts of Europe. Many people have grins on their faces. I think it may be because it’s an old city with lots of old buildings / ruins and bad economy, people just don’t make enough money. I believe the average person gets paid about 100,000 to 150,000 forints, which is about $500-$800. This makes it difficult for them to splurge, go to restaurants, or travel as much as they desire. This is a benefit for us --- I have found everything to be 25-33% lower price than America.
Since Budapest is kind of in the center of Europe in terms of North and South, and even towards the center in terms of East and West – it’s a good tourist destination for Europeans. A few hours away from Poland; pretty close to Germany; far from Spain, but many tourists from there.
Where to stay:
Buda has parks, castles, and is the relaxing part of the city. Pesht is where all the bars/clubs/restaurants/cafes are located. Stay in Pesht. District 5,6,7,8 is the city center. District 5 or in between 5 and 7 is the best place to stay.
Gozsdu Court – We were staying here. There is about 4 buildings in the court. We are staying in building 1, first floor with a balcony overlooking Kolor Klub. In my opinion, I think it’s the best place to stay for a short term rental. If I come back, I would stay here or within 5 minutes walking distance. We are renting a 2 bdroom plus living room for 59 euro per night from “All-4U Apartments”. There is another company Gozsdu Rental which has the same apt rented for about $200 per night. In the court, there is Kolor Club, Spiller restaurant and Bar, Café Vian, and 2Spaghi.
Deak Ferenc – staying with 1km is a good idea. Deak Ferenc is like the epicenter of the city.
Oktagon square - Some people talked about staying here, but I recommend the other places I recommended.
In these areas, a very nice 1 bedroom flat is about 500 euros. But at that price, they are 1 year leases. The minimum you may find is a 3 month rental. Any less, you will be stuck paying nightly fees. But of course on AirBnB, negotiation is easy.
Please note that even if you stay in District 6 or 8, Gozsdu court, Morrisons 2 and pretty much everywhere else is a couple tram stops away.
Restaurants:
I do not travel solely for girls. I travel to experience culture, economy and people in other countries. I am a food conisseur and enjoy trying out new restaurants all the time. Even if you do not care that much about food, here are some recommendations.
Lunch:
Bors GastroBar – excellent; highest recommended; homemade sodas, pasta, sandwiches, and famous for their soup. You can get full off $4.
Castro Bistro – bar/restaurant – good food at low prices.
Caffe GianMario – Pasta/pizza; a guy from Italy owns this place
Dinner:
Spinoza – $$
Ket Szerecsen – $$
Chess Restaurant - $$
Csinaltam neked egy ettermet $$
Bohem Tanya $$
Vapiano’s $$
Queen Pizza and Pub $$
Vak Varju $$
Alcohol:
I always like to specify the type of alcohol because I don’t like getting hang overs from cheap alcohol. I stuck to these and did not have any regretful mornings.
Finlandia is their main superior vodka.
Olmeca is their main superior tequila.
Unicum is their popular bitter liquor similar to jagermeister
Day game:
I won’t lie, I’m pretty much a wimp and don’t initiate. I will only approach a girl who eyes me and continues to maintain eye contact when I eye her. So if you are a true player and initiation is easy for you, your success will be tremendous.
Arena Plaza
A large’ish mall close to the city center; good over the weekend; there is a restaurant/bar upstairs; the ratio is definitely to our benefit. Going during the weekday may be a good idea as well; since the mall is dead, the store clerks (almost all female) may be good opportunity; they are bored – so you are helping them kill time while doing yourself a favor.
Szechenyi & Gellert Bath House
A gold-mine for day game! I am surprised it has been overlooked. Perfect to spend a Saturday or Sunday, maybe 1-7pm. It’s a good time, relaxing, healthy. Plus, there is dozens of groups of girls. Personally, I think it’s better to pre-drink and go to Gellert than to the nightclubs because (1) I was the only guy hollaring and (2) the girls were in a good and relaxed mood. At the club, they are getting hit up left and right, they are annoyed, many of them over drank, they are running around either looking for a friend or trying to locate the coolest spot to hang out – horrible. At Szechenyi, they are just chilling in a warm pool, sitting to the side. Approach is relaxed and easy. There are other bath houses; but Szechenyi is the largest; most pools; most tourists.
Update to Szechenyi:
The first time I went was in early April. The weather was still super cold. It was packed with groups of girls, and small amount of groups of young guys. The 2nd time I went: late April – weather was warm – about 25 celcius. It was a major cockfest. My realization: when the weather gets warm, all the guy tourists’ head out and kill everything. There was literally a guy standing in every corner of the pool; there was almost no possibility of a come up. Seeing so many guys just killed it for me. Of course, we all like warm weather. However, the winter / early spring before the weather gets prime, is better because less male groups of tourists out; more opportunity.
Aquaworld Indoor Water Park
I don’t highly recommend it for the sole purpose of finding girls because it’s mostly families, couples, and 15 year olds – unlike the Bath Houses where it’s a grip of girls in there 20s just spending there day at the spa. If you want to have a cool day going down water slides called the CamaCozi and Black Hole, checking out 10 types of sauna’s, while seeing some tail walking around…then hit it up. It was $15 for a 3 hour pass and about $25 for full day. We got the 3 hour and it was sufficient; but you can easily make it a 5-6 adventure if you want to chill and holler here and there. There were maybe 6-10 girls total who were looking amazing; but all were with a guy. There was maybe a couple groups of girls without dick followers.
Zappa Caffe
On my way walking to a museum and a spotted a small courtyard; there seemed to be a university close by. There were many groups of girls hanging out in the area. Zappa Caffe was a landmark I noticed.
Andrassy Utca
Similar to Rodeo Drive – lots of upscale boutique stores with some restaurants and UriMuri bar. Lots of girls walking around on this street.
Deak Ferenc ter and Vaci Street
These 2 are the primary shopping and walking areas for tourists. Cool to check out. Lots of girls.
Night Game
Budapest is pretty much bar, restaurant, restaurant, bar, bar, gyro stand, gyrostand, convenience store, bar, bar, bar, bar, club, convenience store, bar, gyro stand, restaurant. That’s the city - ton’age of bars, restaurant, cafes, clubs, gyro stands, and supermarkets.
Szimpla Kert:
90% tourists. Thurs, Fri, Saturday nights are the most crowded of course, but groups of girls every night. During the week, I would head there at 10pm. Even though it’s tourists, the girls usually head home at midnight because the bar gets dead and they want to wake up early for sightseeing. Over the weekend, maybe around 11 or midnight at the latest - later than that, competition flourish’s and defenses go up. Amazing place to pick-up. We rarely got turned down. All girls will have a conversation. My game plan at Szimpla: once my shisha was ready, walk around to find the best group of girls and just place the shisha on the ground at their location and start the conversation. They usually want to try it, so it’s a good way to initiate. With this method, I had a 100% success rate of not getting the conversation rejected. The shisha sucks, but it is cheap and I think helps to initiate.
Instant:
Also many tourists, but some locals too. We went on a Tuesday night, it was dead. I spoke to the only group of girls who seemed good looking. They were from Madrid and leaving the next day. My friend went on the next Tuesday night and said it was crowded. I hear it’s a great place to pick up over the weekend.
Both above are highlighted on an article “Where to find love in Budapest”
http://welovebudapest.com/en/clubs-night...n-budapest
*One problem I found with tourists. Majority visit only for 2-4 days. Many of them come on a Friday-Saturday and stay till Tuesday. I guess it can be a good thing since it’s a one-night deal. However, not enough time in my opinion because they are always with friends and since they are visiting for only ~3 days, it is unlikely that they will leave their friends for you for 1 of the nights.
Morrisons 2:
Crowded on Friday and Saturday nights, but known to locals that Monday night is Morrisons 2 night; there is definitely more people inside on Monday nights. This club is more for University students; majority are 20yo-25yo. Morrisons 2 has about 4 dance floors. I do not recommend trying to initiate on the dance floor because there is too many guys. The outdoor area is the best to initiate; there is the most flow of girls walking around / hanging out. Majority of girls who I approached, reciprocated conversation. Saturday night – entrance is 1,500 forint. Monday night it’s 500 forint. Saturday night, before 9pm entrance is free and drinks are ½ price. However, I did notice there tequila to be light and my friend agreed. After 3 double shots of tequila, I was sober. There tequila is watered down before 9pm.
Utkert:
Nightclub / bar; more upscale than Morrisons; very good looking girls; but of course with more upscale, you get more stuck up girls. Even though we were not successful, I recommend checking it out since there was a good amount of girls and it was a cool place.
Kolor Klub:
I’m surprised I did not read about this place on Roosh. I great find. We live right across it. I noticed they have the music on every night till 5am; I was on welovebudapest.com and discovered it’s one of the highest rated clubs. Lots of girls – both locals and tourists. Can have dinner / drinks at Spiler Bar and continue the party directly next door at Kolor. Excellent on Friday and Saturday night. The barber I visited a couple blocks away stated its known as a good place to take girls home.
Trafiq
This is one of the posh, upscale nightclubs in the center of Budapest. 11pm is ideal to show up. We arrived at 11pm; some people inside, but not crowded yet. At midnight, we noticed a line outside. At 1:30am when I left, the entrance reminded me of Hollywood; guys were offering 5,000 forints for entrance and being rejected. 80% of girls here, I rate 7+. The only girls rated less than 7, were the tourists. There were numerous 10s, and many 9s and majority 8s. Me and my friend both arrived with girls (yes, gay; taking sand to the beach), but we were in shock. The girls were ridiculous looking. Dress to impress here; the girls are dressed up. I believe it is a possibility to come up. The girl my friend arrived with wanted to leave because it was too crowded and hot inside. He didn’t leave and ended up talking to a Greek tourist he rated 8.5. Too bad she left back to Greece next morning. A couple girls eyed me, but I was tied down. I recommend going here; but I feel in order to hit up a 8 or 9; it requires good looks and good game. Of course, there are exceptions. So go there if you feel comfortable with both your looks and game.
UriMuri
Another posh club, but not as posh as Trafiq. Majority of girls I rate at 7,8,9. Kolor and Umi Rumi are a 5 minute walk from each other, so I spent a Friday night going back and forth to one another. At 11pm, no line. But from midnight – 2am, there was a consistent entrance line.
Bars we haven’t been to, but worth looking into:
Fogashaz – Bar; very close distance to Szimpla Kert.
Zizi Bar & Negro Bar – Next door to each other
Minyon – nightclub
Boutiq’ Bar – A possible good place to check out.
Mix Bar / Nightclub
Morrisons 1 and 3.
One of them is called Morrisons Liget. Morrisons 2 is the most crowded. I went to Morrisons 1 which is less than a 5 minute walk from UriMuri. On a Friday night, I passed by it twice; seemed like it was dead inside. All the people outside were locals. Might be a place to check out on Saturday night?
Notes:
Over the weekends, arrive around 11pm to the bars/clubs. Even though the girls may not be drunk yet, it allows you to approach while they are still in a good mood. Once it hits midnight and later, (1) places get too crowded → girls get annoyed because it is difficult to move around / they get pushed around + (2) competition. Competition is not just bad because there are too many guys, but the fact is that it seems many guys just do not have game / do not know how to holler, so they just annoy the girls to the point that they will start auto rejecting other guys.
Online Game:
Badoo:
There is a ton of Hungarian girls on Badoo. Many are in Budapest; some in further cities. Make sure they are located in Budapest because the ones who live 100km away are not going to happen. I spoke to many girls. Many don’t speak English, so I started confining my search to English speakers. I was supposed to meet up with a 7, but I flaked and it’s been trouble planning another meet. I met a 18yo, but made the mistake of doing a day date. I spoke to a 6. She was down to meet, but wanted me to go to her. I was not down.
Plenty of Fish:
There are only about 5 girls in Budapest on the site. I messaged all. One provided a response and was down to meet. Once I added her on FB, she ceased responding. One viewed me. I messaged her. I banged her. See below.
Tagged.com
Waste of time I think.
Notes on online game:
You can plan a meeting/date after 10 minutes of conversation; they don’t do the back and forth BS.
My Flag:
2 girls and 2 guys sitting on a stoop in the underground area next to the stairs in Morrisons 2. My drunken friend was randomly approaching girls and speaking Farsi (Persian) to them; (he would get drunk, yet not holler; then get over-drunk and start annoying girls; didn’t really understand) Apparently, the 2 guys were Persian so we started to have a conversation. The girl sitting eyed me and I initiated. She had a rock’ish look that was sexy; about 6 earrings on each ear, a piercing across her nose between her eyes and a tattoo on her arm. She barely spoke English; we exchanged a few sentences; her eyes were glued to my eyes and she pointed next to her; signing for me to sit next to her. We exchanged. 2 other guys approached her friend; I pulled her to the standing position and made out with her for a couple minutes. We sat back down because she would not depart from her friend. Even when I was sitting there, the other 2 guys (locals) were talking to her. I could tell she was telling them that she was with me (she was speaking Hungarian and pointing to me), yet they would not leave. After about 10 minutes of Hungarian talk, I just kissed her, said bye, and walked away. I saw her a couple times more walking around the club. At one point, she told one of my friends in Hungarian to inform me to stop approaching her. I found it weird since we were making out like 30 minutes prior. I realized that girls here do not want to spend the entire night with you just because you had a conversation / made out. If they are with friends, they want to continue with their friends to have a good time. So if you get a girls number or make out, determine the possibility of taking her home same not. If it will not happen, get the contact info and leave it. Do not over approach.
I received her FB friend request the next morning. We spoke via FB for about 15 minutes before making plans to meet. Once we met, I realized she was using a translator because her English was limited to basic phrases and her understanding was minimal. We took a bus and hiked up to Buda Castle, could not find it. On the way back, I stopped at a restaurant for Wifi. I used google translate to tell her to come over. She agreed. Once in my bedroom, we made out and I sucked on her breasts, but she resisted removing her clothing. We arranged to meet another night. I told her I would like to take her to a bar or restaurant. I bought a bottle of wine earlier that day. When she arrived, I asked her “would you like to go to a bar or stay here and have wine”. She wanted to stay. After about 10 minutes and a of wine, we started making out and I fucked her 30 minutes later.
Since it was late March when I first met her, the weather was very cold. She was always wearing a coat. Once I got her naked, I was surprised as to how amazing her body her. Tanned skin, nice breasts, great round ass, and tattoos on her abdomen area. I met her about 5-6 times total during my stay. It was my first time dating / fuking a girl, yet not speaking the same language. Our conversations were via Google translate.
Lesson learned: If a girl does not speak English, it should not hold you back. Speak what you can and get the contact info. Use Google translator to speak to her via facebook. Also, whichever bar/club you go to, hit up the wifi…so if you approach a girl who doesn’t speak the same language, you can immediately have another mode of communication.
My Notch:
A girl views me on Plenty of Fish. I message her. We go back and forth with messages for about 10 minutes. We make plans to meet. I am staying in the prime area of the city where the majority of restaurants and bars are, and very close to the main train or subway stations. I give her my address and tell her to meet me outside at 9pm. 2 days after initial contact. Even after confirming our plans the day before, I'm weary of a flake due to the minimal conversation and her young age.
She looked good in her pictures, and looked better in person. 5'3", hazel/blue eyes, great body, beautiful smile, 20yo. We walk over to a bar/restaurant that is a 5 minute walk to my place. Apparently, girls here don't eat out at restaurants that often. They like eating at home. I get a soup ($4) . She gets a beer ($1.5), and I get one as well ($1.5). The entire time she is smiling at me and I'm glaring into her eyes because her eyes and smile are amazing. She is talkative. Her English is good, but obviously choppy since it's her 2nd language. Her accent is sexy. The bill comes to equivalent of $7. $8 after tip. I tell her I want to go to Buda during my visit; a nice part of the part. She recommends we go same night. She takes me to Buda castle, a 10 minute bus ride to the top of the city across the Danube River where we see all the lights of Budapest; a quiet location at 11pm. After about 20 minutes of looking around and taking some photos, I finally find a secluded spot away from the other walking tourists. I get behind her to rub her back / keep her warm; she leans her body back into mine - the first good sign. I turn her around where she then hints a kiss. We make out and I fondle her body for the next 15 minutes. A great kisser for a 20yo and a phenomenal personality; more mature, more conversational, cooler than any girl I have met in Los Angeles. The entire time she is smiling, eyeing me, and providing conversation and reciprocating any topic I initiate. AND SHE IS 20!!!!
We take a bus back down the hill where I live. I say, "I would like to spend more time with you somewhere warm. Come over. No sex".
She responds, "No sex?"
I say, "No sex"
She says okay.
We walk over to my place. Immediately upon entering, she takes off her shoes; which demonstrates respect compared to girls in Los Angeles .
She uses the restroom, then comes into my room and sits on the bed. There are no chairs in my room.
Side note: Tip 1: I realize there shouldn't be chairs in our bedroom because it will only serve as a separation upon entrance to the room. She will most likely use it. No chair = she will be forced to sit on your bed. Tip 2: there should be a no shoes policy in the bedroom. One less article of clothing and if she is sitting on your bed, then she will come closer to the pillow. If shoes on = she will remain close to the edge of the bed cuz she doesn't want to put her shoes on your mattress.
After a few minutes we start making out. I start kissing her chest and grabbing her breast - I undo her bra. She takes off her bra while grabbing my belt. We both take off our pants. Her thong is dripping wet like somebody just put a hose to it. I rub my dick against her thong and asked her do you want it? Shes says, "yes, please".
While banging her, she reiterates "thank you, thank you" a dozen times. A fuk her again 20 min later doggy style and she orgasms. We sleep. I fuk her again at 6:30am. We take a shower together. At 7am, i walk her to the train station 5 minutes away. She gives me a kiss and wants me to stay until her birthday, which is in 10 days.
Last tip: when you tell a girl to come over, but no sex - The girl gets more comfortable. She wants reassurance that she is not going to get harassed upon entering your place. The girl wants to just chill and chat. But you know that will in turn a sexual visit once you give her a glass of wine and start making out with her in your room which there is only a bed. It makes you seem like a nice guy and gets her comfortable - and that comfort, in turn will make it easier to get into her pants. (Thanks Roosh for the tip)
Initiation Experiences:
Szechenyi Bath House - I was in one of the warm indoor pools. I spotted a group of 3 girls just chilling, so I built my confidence and hollered. My friend cock-blocked. So I moved to the next, which to my luck was much better looking; I’d give her a 7.5 - 8 – 5’8”, thin, blue eyes, wonderful smile, great body. Throughout our talk, she was consistently smiling; she was from Poland and will be moving to Krakow on May 2; coincidentally, around the same time I will be visiting.
Aquaworld - I spotted one walking solo, then noticed her having lunch solo. Me and the 3 guys I was with were in shock – she was truly a 9. Tanned body, dark facial features, 5’9 height, amazing ass, and wearing a thong. I spot her again on the other side of the warm pool. I slowly diverged from my friends (since I’ve noticed they kill moments and cock-block) to the other side of the pool where she was sitting; solo again. I asked, “where are you from; you don’t look like you’re from Hungary”. Her response, “Serbia”. Next thing I know, her butt is in the air 2 foot from my face as she dived to the other side of the pool. After her diving into the water like that, I was like “wow”. I watched her walk over to the other cold pool to do laps. I was in the mood to do some laps anyways, so I walked over. As I started, she was half way to the other side. I pretty much did 3 laps till I caught up with her. She was super fast; I couldn’t keep up. I was super out of breathe, but initiated and it led to a 10-minute conversation. I asked who she was there with. She responded, “her boyfriend.” He was lounging reading a book. She progressed to saying she owns a hostess (or escort) business is Belgrade. She told me to add her on Facebook. I could tell she was definitely interested, and would hang during her stay if her boyfriend was in the picture.
Szimpla - I met 18yo German Exchange student; probably a 7.5 (added her on fb and messaged to make plans; she said she would let me know, but then didn’t respond). My friend met a Cuban dancer, but then couldn’t locate her on facebook. Another friend met a girl and made out with her. She told him she wants to F**k, but not same night because she had to shave down there first. Getting the shisha is a brilliant idea because girls want to try it.
Possible useful tips:
A problem with bath houses and water parks: You cannot carry around your phone to save contact info. The Polish girl: I had her spell her full name letter by letter and I repeated in my head a dozen times until I ditched my friends just to go to my locker and type her name in my phone. The Serbian girl: her name was way too long and difficult; she gave me her website and I found her name on there.
Great thing about Europe:
Here, the public transportation system is great; thus, guys are not expected to have cars or pick a girl up. If you are living in the city center, you can tell a girl to meet at your place because (1) there is lots of bars/restaurants around and (2) you do not know the area that well.
Length of stay:
Girls here will have sex quite quickly, but do not like going out with guys who are going to leave in the next couple days. They obviously do not want to build feelings / have sex, and then you leave right after. The 3 most frequent questions: How long have you been in Budapest? How long are you staying for? How do you like it here thus far? I think it’s best to stay for at least a couple weeks or a couple months; I’ve realized, the longer you stay, the better. Girls like it when the guy is there to stay.
The average Hungarian girl:
As I said before, many girls are raised in low-income families. Because of lack of money, they do not go out often; they are not happy; they get bored. The average girl here does not expect anything from a guy because they are accustomed to Hungarian guys who cannot provide. Some examples: I asked my flag to join me for dinner several times. She declined. It seems because they are just accustomed to eating at home because they do not have money for restaurants. If she is making 100,000 forints per month, she cannot pay 2,000 forints (2% of her income) on 1 dinner. A morning after she slept over, I asked her to join me at breakfast. At the restaurant, I forced her to order breakfast. She did not want anything. Later she texted me saying it was delicious. Other dates I went on were at little or no cost. You can easy go on numerous dates without spending any money.
I met a group of Iranian guys who have lived here for years. I went out to dinner with them and 2 of them brought their Hungarian girlfriends along. While we were speaking in Farsi, joking around, and laughing; the girls remained quiet and did not bother the guys once. One of the guys explained that he pays for the apartment, he has a car, and she just pays some of the utilities – and he was attractive. He said that this girl will not find a Hungarian guy like me. “I pay for her stuff and I tell her what to do. If she bitches, I get in the car and leave. 10 hours later, she calls me crying and apologizing. I go out to clubs with my friends and come home 5am. She will not dare say a word” In America, a girl will not allow that. “Why are you speaking in another language; why this; why that”. Another one of the guys lived is Szeged which is only locals. He learned Hungarian. He said that he was like a prince there; everybody is poor and he was the only non-Hungarian. “Since I learned to speak Hungarian, I could bang which ever girl I wanted. Even in Budapest, because I speak Hungarian, but I’m a foreigner, and have money; every girl likes me.” We went to smoke shisha at 1am. He called a girl rate a 8; he told her in Hungarian, “get dressed, make yourself pretty, and join us”. She joined, and he went home with her. He also has 2 girlfriends – a Turkish and a Hungarian. Basically, if you stay for a long period and they know it – a major plus. If you speak Hungarian – a super major plus.
If you can pull off learning Hungarian, Szeged is also a great place to visit. Gorgeous girls and no travelers.
In conclusion:
From what I hear, the most attractive girls in Europe are in Serbia and Croatia, but Budapest definitely is up there in my opinion. The average girl here is a 7 with many 8s, 9s, and 10s.. Also, I hear it is definitely easier to get notches in Kiev, but if you have moderate game and moderate looks, you will do well here as well. I think if you are committed and good at what you do, you can get 1 to 2 new fucks per week. I got my flag the first time I went out and the notch from online. From what it seems, it is possible to get one night stands. But most likely, if you meet at a bar/club, you will not fuck same night, but maybe on the first date.
Sorry for writing a book. Just wanted to be complete and provide some of my experiences as well. Also, sorry for the grammatical errors. I spent a shit load of time writing this and I’m over it now. If there are any major grammatical errors, something you don't understand, or any language I am not allowed to use; let me know.