Quote: (02-08-2013 01:28 PM)scorpion Wrote:
Edit: I forgot to add, if you are going to hit the bars and clubs for some night game, do it on T/W/Th. Girls who go out during the week are much more open to actually meeting men and aren't as likely to just be there to text and take pictures.
This is true.
We've made Friday nights a "men's night" where the three of us go out and get some food, shoot some shit with the waitresses and bar staff, have a good time in each other's company discussing plans for the future and business ideas, etc.
Then we head out to a bar and we give the women there no attention. Absolutely no attention whatsoever. Whether we're standing at the bar chatting and laughing with each other or sitting down on one of the sofas doing the same, chicks realise we're having a decent night, we're not needy betas and we're not validating any attention seeking whores.
This gets girls approaching us. We don't go out on Fridays looking to pull, we go to have a good time much like a lot of these girls do. When they see three well dressed guys having a laugh and taking all the value in the bar, it drives them mental because they can't figure out why we're not chatting girls up. We look like guys who should be but we're not, and it's not because we're too scared or don't rate ourselves, it's because it's genuinely not on our agenda.
We don't look frustrated or like we're waiting for things to spice up in the bar to be able to hit on girls and we don't look or get affected if we leave the bar with no numbers or girls, or even if we're sitting there having a laugh and no girls have spoken to us. A lot of average guys get stiff and frustrated if they don't get any attention back and chalk the night off as a failure, even if they don't have a goal or game.
Girls can sense that. We get checked out a lot and continue laughing with each other until eventually we get approached and maybe give them a bit of time.
Reverse psychology.