Instead of meeting at a bar how about meeting at a cafe style place for coffee and a pastry, similar to what Roosh recommends for a first date in Day Bang? Instead of bouncing to the bar as the next stop go on a short walk and pitch the idea of going back to your place for a "real drink." Since she's under age she should jump at the chance of being able to drink with you.
From there run Tuth's first date recipe and add the notch.
From there run Tuth's first date recipe and add the notch.