Quote: (01-05-2013 09:04 PM)Ramon Zarate Wrote:
WIA: here's an example where a tension could occur -
Shit tests: a woman starts shit testing you, and if you have an abundance mentality you might think "fuck this, I'm going to talk to a girl who won't shit test me" and leave. Leaving because it's a pain to talk to someone who keeps giving you shit is not really very good for getting results, if what game guys say is true about shit tests often being a means for a woman to assess your 'alphaness'. Surely in terms of results the best thing would be to pass the shit tests instead of leaving.
Also, if you have (or at least, perceive yourself to be in a state of) abundance, why go to all the effort to change your behaviour for better results? If many girls don't like your behaviour, then you'll usually find a few who will (within reason), if you live in abundance.
The Abundance Mentality is recognizing that there are millions of girls out there, and that you shouldn't hold any one girl, much less some stranger chick you met at a club, to be special. You've seen one pair of legs in a miniskirt and 5 inch heels, you'll see thousands more.
The Abundance Mentality is not an excuse to avoid chicks who "shit test". Because if you did, if you were trying to do "authentic self" game, you wouldn't have heard of the Game in the first place.
Prior to Game, you were being the REAL YOU. The you that likes midnight pizza, hanging out with your friends, not going to the club.. The you that dresses like a sports fan, doesn't work out, and doesn't care.
But you realized that you didn't like the results that the REAL YOU was getting, so you realized that REAL YOU need to become REAL YOU 2.0.
Before you even step to a shit testing lawyer femcunt, you've already changed yourself, your core being, for some stranger, and just for the possibility that you can sleep with her. OMG
Uncle Roosh learned a grip of languages, quit his job, traveled the world...et cetera..a totally 180 from Roosh the Lab Drone...just for pussy?
OH NO!
This has been discussed to death in the community, In the early days, it was called, "Is PUA the new AFC". All sorts of very reductionist thinking (aka trolling) akin to 1) is game moral/ethical, 2) money v. game, 3) is it just a #'s game?
All of it centered on the central fact that you had to do things differently in order to get different results. That couldn't just keep doing the same thing and a hot chick would fall into your lap.
Men don't like change.
WIA