Quote: (12-17-2012 01:29 PM)ElJefe Wrote:
You're probably too aggressive.
Instead of going straight in for the pussy, warm her up really well before. so instead of kissing her, shoving your tongue in there trying to get all of her at once, take it very slowly, and create anticipation. This is definitely a doable bang.
At the next date, don't kiss her off the bat, but kino her hard. Give her some very good wine or good drinks
After dinner/drinks, she's had the alcohol, she's starting to feel horny. Your vibing and clicking well.
You isolate and sit in a corner of the restaurant, a booth, somewhere you can sit next to her. Lean in for the kiss slowly. Stop just a hair's breadth from her lips, let them touch barely, then pull back. Say "I think you need to wait a little longer".
Suggest to go somewhere else (your place, maybe)?
As you help her put on coat to leave, lean down to smell her hair and neck and breathe deeply. Tell her she smells good. A pipe will burst.
When you get to your place, build up the anticipation some more. Kiss her, then take a good 10 minutes to smell her neck, collar and shoulders. Let her really enjoy it, and feel free to compliment her. Use this to get her shoulders bare.
Then start kissing. At this point, she's very wet, but don't go for the pussy just yet.
Run your fingers up and down her back, obliques and thighs. After 5-10 minutes of this, starting running them over her breasts, then back to thighs, slowly moving to inner thighs. As she gets more and more turned on, she's going to expect you to go straight for the pussy, but deny her that luxury. Run your fingers ever closer, then away again. Build anticipation.
After a while feel free to rub her breasts. If she loves it (she should) remove her top, but not bra. Continue you as before, but this time the next step is to run to touch her bare breasts, pinch her nipples very gently (bite them gently) under the bra. Continue paying attention to the inner thighs. At this point she'll probably let you rub her pussy, but again... 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Give a firm but gentle grab/rub then pull back. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
I think if you keep on doing this, going for the kill but holding back every other step, the anticipation will get the better of her, and she'll let you remove each item as long as you take your time and aren't too aggressive.
Once the pants of off, again, you can't just go in the for the pussy right away. You need to tickle and tease her still, so that when you finally do feel her moistness, she'll be practically begging for it.
Yup this is good stuff. It's about building anticipation. Best part is that you make a final move when she's ready.