'Sup guys. Picking up on G's thread about avoiding bad game, I wanted to post up a list of behaviours that makes the average guy unattractive to the opposite sex and a couple of things that add attraction. Post up, contribute, and refer back to these fundamentals when you feel yourself slipping.
Don't:
-be eager to please
-immediately jump to do favors for people. Take your time.
-immediately respond to a question. Take a pause to reflect on your reply.
-speak quickly. Slow. the. fuck. down.
-reply to rational questions with rational answers (ie. Where are you from? Bad: California. Good: Where do you think I'm from?)
-try to build rapport too early in an interaction.
-fidget/touch your face/slouch while talking
-move out of the path of other people. Slow down until they move.
-be the first to break eye contact
-treat a "10" any different from a 7
-make a big deal about beauty around people you don't know. Acknowledge good looks and move on.
-apologize. Acknowledge and move on.
-babble. If it adds no value to the conversation then don't say it. Silence builds mystery.
-go back to a conversation that was interrupted.
-let anyone you don't know touch you without shrugging them off.
-speak in questions. Does your voice go up at the end of a sentence? vs Your voice goes up at the end of a sentence.
-go more than a week without hitting the gym. (Why are you on this forum if you don't workout, bro?)
Do
-kino within the first minute.
-speak with conviction. Rid your vocabulary of "i think..", "it's about..","umm". Speak finitely and definitively more often than not.
-get girls to do things for you non-verbally early in your interaction. This primes her for later on. (ie. hold out your glass for her to take and hold. Put your hand out for her to grab)
-hit the gym. (cardio, Squats, deadlifts, dips, incline bench w/ free weights is all you need)
-read a shit ton. And talk about what you read.
More to come...
Don't:
-be eager to please
-immediately jump to do favors for people. Take your time.
-immediately respond to a question. Take a pause to reflect on your reply.
-speak quickly. Slow. the. fuck. down.
-reply to rational questions with rational answers (ie. Where are you from? Bad: California. Good: Where do you think I'm from?)
-try to build rapport too early in an interaction.
-fidget/touch your face/slouch while talking
-move out of the path of other people. Slow down until they move.
-be the first to break eye contact
-treat a "10" any different from a 7
-make a big deal about beauty around people you don't know. Acknowledge good looks and move on.
-apologize. Acknowledge and move on.
-babble. If it adds no value to the conversation then don't say it. Silence builds mystery.
-go back to a conversation that was interrupted.
-let anyone you don't know touch you without shrugging them off.
-speak in questions. Does your voice go up at the end of a sentence? vs Your voice goes up at the end of a sentence.
-go more than a week without hitting the gym. (Why are you on this forum if you don't workout, bro?)
Do
-kino within the first minute.
-speak with conviction. Rid your vocabulary of "i think..", "it's about..","umm". Speak finitely and definitively more often than not.
-get girls to do things for you non-verbally early in your interaction. This primes her for later on. (ie. hold out your glass for her to take and hold. Put your hand out for her to grab)
-hit the gym. (cardio, Squats, deadlifts, dips, incline bench w/ free weights is all you need)
-read a shit ton. And talk about what you read.
More to come...