It's good you're seeking advice, but you really have to rely on your own counsel here. Based just on what you've written, you sound like a decent guy who just happens to lack direction and focus. Until you actually decide what you want to accomplish in 5 or 10 years, making lists and establishing a routine for things like working out and doing chores is not really going to help much.
Try to determine the intersection of your personal Venn diagram of: (1) things at which you are skilled; (2) things for which others will pay $$$; and, (3) things you would enjoy doing for 30 or 40 years. Item (2) cannot be ignored, unless you want to end up a loser. And try to be objective about (1), most people think they are much better at things than they really are. Unless strangers and/or adversaries have approached you to praise your performance, you probably are not good yet. Keep at it.
Also, don't beat yourself up too much. A lot of life is being mentally ready and poised to pounce when opportunity presents itself. Losers will say you were "lucky", but what they don't realize is that you spent months or years mentally preparing yourself for the moment when you needed to strike when a fleeting opportunity presented itself.
Don't waste any time on girls. Once you've achieved your personal goals there will be plenty of what you want and need readily at hand.
Try to determine the intersection of your personal Venn diagram of: (1) things at which you are skilled; (2) things for which others will pay $$$; and, (3) things you would enjoy doing for 30 or 40 years. Item (2) cannot be ignored, unless you want to end up a loser. And try to be objective about (1), most people think they are much better at things than they really are. Unless strangers and/or adversaries have approached you to praise your performance, you probably are not good yet. Keep at it.
Also, don't beat yourself up too much. A lot of life is being mentally ready and poised to pounce when opportunity presents itself. Losers will say you were "lucky", but what they don't realize is that you spent months or years mentally preparing yourself for the moment when you needed to strike when a fleeting opportunity presented itself.
Don't waste any time on girls. Once you've achieved your personal goals there will be plenty of what you want and need readily at hand.