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Good points Jariel. Learning about game is opening my eyes. Yes a player uses logic whilst controlling his emotions. The part about 'boyfriend material' hit home. I recognise I've never exuded the alpha 'bang me whilst you can' vibe. It's been mentioned before here that females do select certain types of men to have sex with ASAP. These men are obviously the opposite of the type of guy who would be content with a 'relationship'.