Usually it involves her being ambiguously "busy". It's true that if you see that word, you're dead to her. Delete her number if she doesn't offer an immediate reschedule.
The worst flake I ever got was a girl I scheduled a trip to see. I was scheduling a long train ride to NYC to see an old friend and decided to try to squeeze in a meetup with a girl on the way. We agreed to meet at a specified time in order to maintain my schedule. I had my bags packed the next morning and on the way out the door I figured I might as well give her a call to make sure we were still good to meet.
She told me that a friend had come over the night before and they were drinking hard. She was too hungover to meet. Went something like this:
"Let's meet a little later?"
No, I have a schedule to keep.
"Please? I really wanna meet."
No.
She explodes and acts like I'm being unreasonable.
I hung up the phone and never talked to her again. She was kinda chubby anyway.
My tolerance to flakiness is at all all-time low. I think I'll be writing about it soon.
The worst flake I ever got was a girl I scheduled a trip to see. I was scheduling a long train ride to NYC to see an old friend and decided to try to squeeze in a meetup with a girl on the way. We agreed to meet at a specified time in order to maintain my schedule. I had my bags packed the next morning and on the way out the door I figured I might as well give her a call to make sure we were still good to meet.
She told me that a friend had come over the night before and they were drinking hard. She was too hungover to meet. Went something like this:
"Let's meet a little later?"
No, I have a schedule to keep.
"Please? I really wanna meet."
No.
She explodes and acts like I'm being unreasonable.
I hung up the phone and never talked to her again. She was kinda chubby anyway.
My tolerance to flakiness is at all all-time low. I think I'll be writing about it soon.