A lot of times when we're dealing with women, at least initially, we look at the good things, and because we're so focused on looking at the positives, we're kind of ignorant to the negatives.
As time goes on, the honeymoon ends, and some of those positives start to fade, mostly because the girl stops being overly concerned about putting her best foot forward because after a certain amount of time, she feels she's "won" you, so she let's her game slip and the negatives start to appear more and more.
What a lot of us tend to do, is take the good with the bad, and we rationalize things, and keep rocking with the girl.
The reason this level of action is bad for you is because what's happening is you're denying to yourself that the girl just isn't good enough for you.
That doesn't mean the girl is bad. It just means that the non-negotiable things that you need her to be, she's just not.
Everybody who tries out for the team, doesn't make it, so you're not obligated to keep her on the roster just because she's there.
She has to earn her place, all the time.
She has to be the things you're looking for, all the time.
If she's not capable of providing what you want and need, then she gets cut.
If you're not happy with the type of woman you're dealing with, then work on yourself to become the type of man that can get the type of woman he wants.
You don't have to settle for taking the good and bad, because you can get what it is that you want.
Either way, the choice is yours.
As time goes on, the honeymoon ends, and some of those positives start to fade, mostly because the girl stops being overly concerned about putting her best foot forward because after a certain amount of time, she feels she's "won" you, so she let's her game slip and the negatives start to appear more and more.
What a lot of us tend to do, is take the good with the bad, and we rationalize things, and keep rocking with the girl.
The reason this level of action is bad for you is because what's happening is you're denying to yourself that the girl just isn't good enough for you.
That doesn't mean the girl is bad. It just means that the non-negotiable things that you need her to be, she's just not.
Everybody who tries out for the team, doesn't make it, so you're not obligated to keep her on the roster just because she's there.
She has to earn her place, all the time.
She has to be the things you're looking for, all the time.
If she's not capable of providing what you want and need, then she gets cut.
If you're not happy with the type of woman you're dealing with, then work on yourself to become the type of man that can get the type of woman he wants.
You don't have to settle for taking the good and bad, because you can get what it is that you want.
Either way, the choice is yours.