To break in the group you have to come up with something interesting thing to say and expect nothing in return. Its like you enter a kitchen with 5 people inside and you spontaneously say something. They bite it you're in, they don't you make coffee and leave.
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http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-39829-...#pid818767