Quote: (07-08-2014 07:52 AM)heavy Wrote:
I thought about this last night (a good thread when it makes me think later in the evening)...
The analogy still holds, but I don't feel you explained on this point. A woman also wants to know she isn't one of many of your swords. She may settle for that temporarily, but ultimately she wants to know she is truly and ultimately your Excalibur.
We all select from the options that are available to us in life. It can be no different. And a woman does the same. Of course we would all like to have the best option but when this is not available we must then be contented with the second best option. Of course, a woman would want to be your only woman. The second best option is for her to be your main woman. But ultimately what everyone wants is equality. We want to know we are being treated equally as everyone else. Women aren't upset about affairs because we have sex with another woman - that's the surface. What they are really upset about is that we usually treat the other woman better than them.