Once they have to resort to shaming, the battle's already over. People, men or women, don't have to be shamed unless what's being sold is something they really don't want. If men actually wanted strong, independent, mature women there would be no need to humiliate and insult them to convince them of it.
It is normal for young guys to join older women in the shaming, though, as a competitive strategy. An older guy with his shit together is more appealing to many young girls than another broke, clueless college dude. Youth, of course, isn't the trump card for men that it is for women.
It is normal for young guys to join older women in the shaming, though, as a competitive strategy. An older guy with his shit together is more appealing to many young girls than another broke, clueless college dude. Youth, of course, isn't the trump card for men that it is for women.