I think the drink alcohol advice is misguided, its how a lot of people become alcoholics, using the drink to deal with their issues, and nothing is more embarrassing than a drunk geek. Learn how to deal with it.
Basically, be this guy
![[Image: jameswoods.jpg]](http://www.librarising.com/astrology/celebs/images2/J/jameswoods.jpg)
Harvard educated, smart ass, well dressed, with some money in your pocket, and yeah, he dates younger women
![[Image: james-woods-girlfriend-bikini-3.jpg]](http://images.zoso.ro/img/2011/06/james-woods-girlfriend-bikini-3.jpg)
Basically, be this guy
Harvard educated, smart ass, well dressed, with some money in your pocket, and yeah, he dates younger women