The eye contact talk is really interesting. I think using it instead of staring at a girl's body in admiration or lust, takes her off the pedestal and humanizes her.
You know, I'll be at the gym and see hot girls. I'll check them out, and feel totally inadequate. Like I'm looking at porn or something. But when we walk by, or if they look at me I focus completely on their faces/eyes and ignore the body. They just become floating heads.
Surprisingly, I find myself LESS attracted to them after I humanize them and realize how their faces look. I'm a sucker for asses/legs so often my gaze goes here, but when I check out a girl's face or make eye contact I feel much more "equal" with a girl.
Just have to snap out of that habit of staring like a pervert.
You know, I'll be at the gym and see hot girls. I'll check them out, and feel totally inadequate. Like I'm looking at porn or something. But when we walk by, or if they look at me I focus completely on their faces/eyes and ignore the body. They just become floating heads.
Surprisingly, I find myself LESS attracted to them after I humanize them and realize how their faces look. I'm a sucker for asses/legs so often my gaze goes here, but when I check out a girl's face or make eye contact I feel much more "equal" with a girl.
Just have to snap out of that habit of staring like a pervert.