Back in the '90's it was a semiregular occurrence at parties for a drunk chick to yell out "Somebody fuck me!"
Sometimes guys would do it.
Other times white knights would intervene and protect her honor, chastity, eggs, STD status, etc.
Two sides to the woman. Logical side says she wants a provider type who will care for her and respect her. This is the Beta bucks but also what culture used to drum in. This is the side that pick up attempts to fool or even just shut down with alcohol.
The illogical side wants alpha dick and wants it raw, wants it right now. This is what pick up tries to inflame.
When a guy picks up a woman he is fooling her logical side and taking advantage of her illogical side. That's why, way back when, rape was considered worse than seduction. Rapists were taking the body only, seducers were taking body and mind.
Men have an illogical side and a logical side but we acknowledge it and understand ourselves. The illogical side sees hot and wants it. The logical side factors in STD probability, pregnancy probability, how much effort she'll take, her 6' tall MMA amateur bf, etc.
When a guy is done with sex he thinks about how hot she was naked compared to what he expected/hoped for clothed, how much effort she really took, were there STD signs, can he climb down the fire escape if her bf returns before he gets out of there etc.
A woman who realizes she was fooled and slept with anything other than 100% USDA Grade AAA Alpha will have buyer's remorse. She'll realize she was fooled even if the guy didn't feed her booze and was 100% honest about everything. She fooled herself but will blame the guy. A guy who gets fooled by make up, push up bra, or girdle will just blame himself and chalk it up to experience.
The policies you describe in your post are the hamster trying to deal with that. The policies work because Betas are chilled by them while Alphas just go in for the kill anyway.
Sometimes guys would do it.
Other times white knights would intervene and protect her honor, chastity, eggs, STD status, etc.
Two sides to the woman. Logical side says she wants a provider type who will care for her and respect her. This is the Beta bucks but also what culture used to drum in. This is the side that pick up attempts to fool or even just shut down with alcohol.
The illogical side wants alpha dick and wants it raw, wants it right now. This is what pick up tries to inflame.
When a guy picks up a woman he is fooling her logical side and taking advantage of her illogical side. That's why, way back when, rape was considered worse than seduction. Rapists were taking the body only, seducers were taking body and mind.
Men have an illogical side and a logical side but we acknowledge it and understand ourselves. The illogical side sees hot and wants it. The logical side factors in STD probability, pregnancy probability, how much effort she'll take, her 6' tall MMA amateur bf, etc.
When a guy is done with sex he thinks about how hot she was naked compared to what he expected/hoped for clothed, how much effort she really took, were there STD signs, can he climb down the fire escape if her bf returns before he gets out of there etc.
A woman who realizes she was fooled and slept with anything other than 100% USDA Grade AAA Alpha will have buyer's remorse. She'll realize she was fooled even if the guy didn't feed her booze and was 100% honest about everything. She fooled herself but will blame the guy. A guy who gets fooled by make up, push up bra, or girdle will just blame himself and chalk it up to experience.
The policies you describe in your post are the hamster trying to deal with that. The policies work because Betas are chilled by them while Alphas just go in for the kill anyway.