Willy Wonka
"How do I answer this."
Here is your problem: you are not dictating the action.
In Boxing, there are two old adages:
"Get off first" (so to speak)
And "Fight your fight"
You are essentially letting her "Get off first" and you are fighting her fight.
When you call a girl, (please young ones, stop with this texting crap), you need to have a clear plan of attack and a goal in mind (setting a meet up). Know your entry and exit points before you get into the trade.
Lead the girl.
This is what they all want. Its in their nature.
You really want to fight against human nature?
"How do I answer this."
Here is your problem: you are not dictating the action.
In Boxing, there are two old adages:
"Get off first" (so to speak)
And "Fight your fight"
You are essentially letting her "Get off first" and you are fighting her fight.
When you call a girl, (please young ones, stop with this texting crap), you need to have a clear plan of attack and a goal in mind (setting a meet up). Know your entry and exit points before you get into the trade.
Lead the girl.
This is what they all want. Its in their nature.
You really want to fight against human nature?