I went through this shit last weekend, first time with a girl that refused to let me go raw. I was hard, condom on, no more hard. We fucked 4x at various levels of hardness, none of which got to the point of the pre-condom stiffness.
I've been hammered before and still gotten it rock hard so I'm not sure that's the issue. It's the worst feeling in the world because then you start thinking about it and it gets in your head.
I've never tried the lube thing though. Maybe I should...or give up on my Durex Love's since they went to a new manufacturer they kinda suck and it contorts my dick with all the plastic getting caught.
I've been hammered before and still gotten it rock hard so I'm not sure that's the issue. It's the worst feeling in the world because then you start thinking about it and it gets in your head.
I've never tried the lube thing though. Maybe I should...or give up on my Durex Love's since they went to a new manufacturer they kinda suck and it contorts my dick with all the plastic getting caught.