Two types need to be distinguished:
1. The asexual guy friend that hopes he will one day land his specific crush.
2. The social guy that has many female friends and is in no rush to make a move on any one in particular.
We need to remember where game has originated. Guys that weren't very social and cracked the code by looking at social guys and shared the ideas and theories online. They generally wouldn't have an impressive social circle. Little to no female friends and guy friends that were just as socially maladjusted.
This type is often fear bound. Fear of being judged by other, feeling he's not good enough. Fear of being rejected by hot and popular girls. Fear of being bullied, beaten and humiliated by the cool naturals.
This type of guy should not use beta orbiting game. Instead, like proved successful in the game community, they should improve their social dominance and calibration and go for the kill. Short term flings until their inner game is good enough to be congruent for longer stretches of endured alphaness in relationships. Being friendly with girls before that critical point would lead to the asexual, oneitis betas that are invested in having his one crush see his goodness.
The other type, having enough value, options and confidence to not care too much for any girl, can orbit. But instead of calling that beta orbiting game, that would be called 'being a natural, social guy that likes girls'.
Nothing like having a group of female friends to party with. They will all have outside friends they will have join your group every so often and those girls you can go for. The goose with the golden eggs. And hanging out with girls can be chill. Shooting the shit.
This is also perfect for keeping any girlfriend on her toes. Jealousy lubes them up!
1. The asexual guy friend that hopes he will one day land his specific crush.
2. The social guy that has many female friends and is in no rush to make a move on any one in particular.
We need to remember where game has originated. Guys that weren't very social and cracked the code by looking at social guys and shared the ideas and theories online. They generally wouldn't have an impressive social circle. Little to no female friends and guy friends that were just as socially maladjusted.
This type is often fear bound. Fear of being judged by other, feeling he's not good enough. Fear of being rejected by hot and popular girls. Fear of being bullied, beaten and humiliated by the cool naturals.
This type of guy should not use beta orbiting game. Instead, like proved successful in the game community, they should improve their social dominance and calibration and go for the kill. Short term flings until their inner game is good enough to be congruent for longer stretches of endured alphaness in relationships. Being friendly with girls before that critical point would lead to the asexual, oneitis betas that are invested in having his one crush see his goodness.
The other type, having enough value, options and confidence to not care too much for any girl, can orbit. But instead of calling that beta orbiting game, that would be called 'being a natural, social guy that likes girls'.
Nothing like having a group of female friends to party with. They will all have outside friends they will have join your group every so often and those girls you can go for. The goose with the golden eggs. And hanging out with girls can be chill. Shooting the shit.
This is also perfect for keeping any girlfriend on her toes. Jealousy lubes them up!