Quote: (02-01-2013 03:00 PM)InsurgentMax Wrote:
Again, the question is do YOU want to? If you think that increasing your emotional availability/investment is the correct way to keep a party girl's legs spread for you, you're severely misguided. If you see her really desiring a true emotional connection with you, you need to know what benefits THAT would bring into your life and what behaviors has she demonstrated so far that would make higher emotional investment a positive progression in your relationship.
This! I'm currently reading the book "Models" (highly recommended) and this is pretty much the theme of the entire book.