Apatow is a realist. He seems to be up to something. In his films, women are bitchy cheaters, PUA are the only happy, successful people, men are emasculated. The only character you might want to be in his films is Gosling's character in that Crazy Love movie. Women behave so badly. They are not condemned morally in the narrative; they are given a free pass. But god they are beastly and unhappy.
"Equality may perhaps be a right, but no power on earth can ever turn it into a fact."
"Want him to be more of a man? Try being more of a woman!"
"It is easier to be a lover than a husband, for the same reason that it is more difficult to be witty every day, than to say bright things from time to time."
Balzac, Physiology of Marriage