- Befriend a couple of HOT girls. Instead of approaching like you want to bang them take different route. Be friendly. Tell them you are just out to have a good time.
- Create situation where it's appropriate to buy shots and make a toast "to new friends".
- Figure out who's the head bitch in he group. Exchange phone numbers. Tell them "till next time" and that maybe you'll run into them next weekend.
- Don't text them at all. You're not after them. No clingy shit.
- A week later when you go out text them to come out and join you for a drink or two. Whether they come or not is ok as you're out socializing with other girls in the same fashion.
- Repeat that until something sticks.
- When something sticks with some girls those girls will see you as cool fun guy to be around who doesn't want anything from them. You will hang out more often. Maybe bar hopping together. Maybe getting invited to their places/parties/events.
- That's when you network. Hot girls are popular and know lots of people and other fine girls. This is why it's different to befriend them instead of some ok next door girls.
- Don't worry about being friend zoned like a gay nice guy. Attractive guy is attractive guy regardless. Flirting, mutual comfort, standing out from other guys, being nonjudgmental about sex, coming up with some initiatives, etc, will do the job. So even when girls will be reserved towards you (BF/married/bad time in their life/break up/reputation/etc) they will be attracted to you (you take conscious effort to get better with girls, you're already much more attractive than VAST majority of all men).
- Create situation where it's appropriate to buy shots and make a toast "to new friends".
- Figure out who's the head bitch in he group. Exchange phone numbers. Tell them "till next time" and that maybe you'll run into them next weekend.
- Don't text them at all. You're not after them. No clingy shit.
- A week later when you go out text them to come out and join you for a drink or two. Whether they come or not is ok as you're out socializing with other girls in the same fashion.
- Repeat that until something sticks.
- When something sticks with some girls those girls will see you as cool fun guy to be around who doesn't want anything from them. You will hang out more often. Maybe bar hopping together. Maybe getting invited to their places/parties/events.
- That's when you network. Hot girls are popular and know lots of people and other fine girls. This is why it's different to befriend them instead of some ok next door girls.
- Don't worry about being friend zoned like a gay nice guy. Attractive guy is attractive guy regardless. Flirting, mutual comfort, standing out from other guys, being nonjudgmental about sex, coming up with some initiatives, etc, will do the job. So even when girls will be reserved towards you (BF/married/bad time in their life/break up/reputation/etc) they will be attracted to you (you take conscious effort to get better with girls, you're already much more attractive than VAST majority of all men).