Urbrock,, I feel for ya! it sucks totally, get your hopes up high and voila. I make the same mistakes, but when I have 2 girls going on the side, with work and my normal life I'm busy for their texts etc... and the girls get jealous cuz you ain't giving them any time. Here's what I do to counter flakey behaviour..
1. I don't text her back after the first date etc, ohh I had a good time etc..
2. I say less than her if she texts me.
3. I make plans with other friends and girls when I'm actually thinking of taking her out.. of course, I tell my friends what the deal is...
This ain't 100% fullproof, but at least you won't sound needy etc...
Well lesson learned. Why don't you text her back and invite her to some hotel resort for a weekend that she might really dig, and the day she is supposed to come, cancel on her.... Karma is a bitch.
1. I don't text her back after the first date etc, ohh I had a good time etc..
2. I say less than her if she texts me.
3. I make plans with other friends and girls when I'm actually thinking of taking her out.. of course, I tell my friends what the deal is...
This ain't 100% fullproof, but at least you won't sound needy etc...
Well lesson learned. Why don't you text her back and invite her to some hotel resort for a weekend that she might really dig, and the day she is supposed to come, cancel on her.... Karma is a bitch.