Quote: (07-10-2012 12:19 PM)WestCoast Wrote:
I'll try to explain the difference. A lot of your points are valid, if you are in "fling zone" yeah she'll test your congruence a lot but it depends on what kind of girl you have. It's not like being ripped to shreds means u can't date at all, that's a myth. Just more women consider you a fling.
1. Shy girls. You'll have to prove you are actually datable if she is not a fling type and go for a day 2 bang
2. Party girls. Just go caveman and be massively congruent. Blah blah. One night stand.
Hopefully that short example helps. As you get bigger how people treat you changes. You have to change as well.
When I was skinny I'd run a different game than the game I run now. I run a different game in a v-neck than when I am in a blazer. Different game at beach shirtless versus out of work in a suit. The list goes on and on.
When you stack weight fast and become muscular the game changes, unlikely will your personalities match at first that's the issue so you have to gauge how handsome you are again and re-triangulate.
End of the day though, a mans fitness is a great long-term barometer for # of sex partners. So get jacked to shreds.
like i said early on in the thread, in my experience, they usually do get attached after the bang. but being nice is definitely not the answer, especially if you are going for truly hot girls. ive actually found that if they see you do or if you talk about doing things for your friends and family, they will think of as a "nice guy" and project that niceness onto the relationship even though you never do anything nice to them. so, you never come off needy or approval seeking but they also dont see you as an insufferable prick.
anytime i have ever said 'this girl is sweet, maybe i should try to be nice and tone down the assholeness' i havent gotten the bang.