Your tale is very common as many parents wait until the children are out of the house to get a divorce to make it easier on the kids. Sounds like it does the exact opposite. Its a lot easier to adapt as a child as you really don't have a choice, or feel the need to take sides etc...
My situation is a bit unusual as my parents got along well after the divorce and everyone gets together comfortably with the new spouses.
My situation is a bit unusual as my parents got along well after the divorce and everyone gets together comfortably with the new spouses.