Quote: (03-18-2017 05:18 PM)Windom Earle Wrote:
Quote: (03-18-2017 10:45 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
Let this situation be a reminder to you that it is a big gamble to be emotionally and/or physically beholden to just one female. They can go cold out of the blue with no reason or explanation.
As men we may not be adequately astute or emotionally aware/intelligent, particularly at key junctures, but there are always reasons.
Yes, women can be fickle, but if you actually sit down and decipher the situation with a reasonable level of critical thinking it's not that hard to empathise with her decision, ego aside.
Similar to how a beta herb may be dumbfounded by a wife's decision to go with another man "out of the blue" - which we all know generally only happens after many months/years of patently poor game and ineffectiveness as a leader of a relationship/household, stories like this reek of what I would term as thumb-in-bum, mind-in-neutral mentality. Just meandering along because she's pleasant to be around and you're satiating base needs without actively seeking higher purpose or meaning from a relationship.
That's all well and good if the woman you're with is on the same page, but if she's not, it doesnt matter what you're bringing to the table from a game standpoint, she'll always opt for the guy that's going to meet her needs whilst she's in a position to leverage her looks/youth in doing so.
Don't mistake this for hypergamy either, as every man has the power to nip it in the bud from the outset by being honest and self-effacing with what he wants from the relationship.
AKA Wisdom Earle