I like this guys take:
Listen to me, men, and pay close attention to these basic facts:
1. The divorce rate in this country exceeds 50%, so the odds are that whomever it is that you are calling wife today, will be your ex-wife at some point in the future.
2. The divorce/family courts hate you, and will make it their mission in life to destroy your life both financially and emotionally – especially if there are children involved.
3. Don’t get married, just co-habitate, and ensure you know your state’s laws regarding common-law marriage. If it’s five years, then change girlfriends every four and a half years.
4. Don’t have kids with anyone you aren’t 100% sure you want to have in your life until the day you die, because that’s exactly where they’re going to be one way or the other. If you want kids that badly, hire a surrogate and be a single parent on the birth certificate. This way the courts can’t take them away from you, nor make you pay a lifestyle stipend (disguised as child support) to some bimbo who lied about her birth control habits.
5. If you absolutely, positively have to get married, get a damn iron-clad pre-nup! And if she says she won’t marry you under those circumstances, then you have your answer and you need to move on.
Get over your romantic notions about marriage, and recognize that the price you will pay at some point down the road, is just too steep. Women specifically, and liberals in general, have turned marriage into nothing more than an opportunity for a financial windfall for females, but if you don’t play by their rules, then they can’t touch you.
Listen to me, men, and pay close attention to these basic facts:
1. The divorce rate in this country exceeds 50%, so the odds are that whomever it is that you are calling wife today, will be your ex-wife at some point in the future.
2. The divorce/family courts hate you, and will make it their mission in life to destroy your life both financially and emotionally – especially if there are children involved.
3. Don’t get married, just co-habitate, and ensure you know your state’s laws regarding common-law marriage. If it’s five years, then change girlfriends every four and a half years.
4. Don’t have kids with anyone you aren’t 100% sure you want to have in your life until the day you die, because that’s exactly where they’re going to be one way or the other. If you want kids that badly, hire a surrogate and be a single parent on the birth certificate. This way the courts can’t take them away from you, nor make you pay a lifestyle stipend (disguised as child support) to some bimbo who lied about her birth control habits.
5. If you absolutely, positively have to get married, get a damn iron-clad pre-nup! And if she says she won’t marry you under those circumstances, then you have your answer and you need to move on.
Get over your romantic notions about marriage, and recognize that the price you will pay at some point down the road, is just too steep. Women specifically, and liberals in general, have turned marriage into nothing more than an opportunity for a financial windfall for females, but if you don’t play by their rules, then they can’t touch you.